I’ve met a great guy, instant connection. We’ve met each others friends & kids/families, been on holidays and spent almost everyday together since we met. 6 months we’ve been seeing each other and recently just got engaged. We can’t be apart long as we just miss each other.
His situation is he had an ex partner who he go owns his home with. She’s found somewhere and is about to leave. She’s not nice to me at all. They’ve been separated for 7 years and have kids. They’ve been living together this whole time for them. His kids are great and I have a great relationship with them.
His childhood was awful, abandonment mainly and no feeling loved. Left to sleep in parks whilst his mother got drunk etc… no food the list goes on. However, regardless he has a successful business of his own and he is amazing.
My issue is he has frequent outbursts of paranoia, feels he’s not enough for me, asks for my ring back, tells me we’ve rushed and I’m going to leave him anyway. That’s he’s ugly and I’m in a different class to him. Then that I make too much of an effort with my looks and how I present myself that I ask for the attention I get. I don’t dress slutty it’s mainly blazers or suits for work and jeans. I do make an effort with my appearance but nothing cosmetic like Botox etc… my problem is, although he apologises and takes it all back, it’s now making me insecure about whether or not he wants to be with me which is sad. I love this man so much, but I am now feeling sad and anxious. What would you do?
His situation is he had an ex partner who he go owns his home with. She’s found somewhere and is about to leave. She’s not nice to me at all. They’ve been separated for 7 years and have kids. They’ve been living together this whole time for them. His kids are great and I have a great relationship with them.
His childhood was awful, abandonment mainly and no feeling loved. Left to sleep in parks whilst his mother got drunk etc… no food the list goes on. However, regardless he has a successful business of his own and he is amazing.
My issue is he has frequent outbursts of paranoia, feels he’s not enough for me, asks for my ring back, tells me we’ve rushed and I’m going to leave him anyway. That’s he’s ugly and I’m in a different class to him. Then that I make too much of an effort with my looks and how I present myself that I ask for the attention I get. I don’t dress slutty it’s mainly blazers or suits for work and jeans. I do make an effort with my appearance but nothing cosmetic like Botox etc… my problem is, although he apologises and takes it all back, it’s now making me insecure about whether or not he wants to be with me which is sad. I love this man so much, but I am now feeling sad and anxious. What would you do?
