Should I stay or should I go?

[Anonymous]

So we've been together 2 years on and off. She swore she loved me and will never leave. Then one day she started acting strange, i texted her anonymously with a different number and asked for her pictures, within 10 minutes she had sent 5 photos I've never seen before. I confronted her and she said it was a mistake and we tried working things out. A week after she just started being cold again and told me she wasn't sure anymore. She i said she loves me but she's scared she might hurt me in future. I don't know what to do. I'm confused if i should just leave, i don't want to leave someone who's good because of impatience. If i ask a lot, she says you think too much. She's 21 and 28. Appreciate your advice. I just want to know if i should stay or leave.

[Avicenna]

Sounds like there are underlying problems if you've been on and off. What are those underlying problems?

[Asker]

Right now we live in different countries. First time she said she was young then she came back and told she was ready for something serious. I took her back and we've been great. Then suddenly she just started behaving like she did the first time.

[Asker]

She keep saying you don't trust me and you think too much.

[Avicenna]

You're in a very difficult situation. Will you be able t live together soon? Is she reliable and do you fully trust her?

[Asker]

Would you trust her if you send her a message with an anonymous number and she starts sending you pictures not even knowing who she's talking to.

[Avicenna]

Probably not

[In_Trance]

Move on

[Asker]

Should i tell her or just cut her off. Even now she asks for favors.

[In_Trance]

Yeah you can definitely tell her just make sure you block contact afterwards

[Asker]

Okay thank you.

[jennifer_bloom]

Break up and find another woman.

[Asker]

Thank you.

[Iron_Man]

Wow that’s a big problem Try to work it out

[Asker]

Thank you.

[Iron_Man]

You are welcome