Which gender is more likely to believe they deserve to date someone out of their league?

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Blurr090 · Accepted Answer

Women do. They are far, far more likely to get occasional attention from men out of there league than men are... Most men won't really even get much attention from women who are in their league, let alone above it.

If an average looking woman in her 20s wanted to sleep with a guy who was very attractive, she could find one who would be willing to do it pretty easily. Now, this doesn't mean she can pick a specific attractive man and that he will sleep with her, nor does it mean the attractive man that would sleep with her would actually date her seriously. But she can at least sleep with an attractive man, which will probably make her think it is more realistic for her to date someone attractive.

If an average looking man tried wanted to sleep with an attractive woman, he couldn't. Nor could he date her or anything else. Unless there was something exceptional about this average looking man - no way. He would struggle to even be able to sleep with average looking women, because the average looking woman could easily find someone more attractive to sleep with. She would also likely feel like she was settling if she dated him, so his dating life is unlikely to be very good either.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

In the past it may have been men, but today it's unquestionably women. Today's women are far more likely to overvalue themselves and think they deserve better than they actually do. Most think they are high value because they are well-educated and have a career, things men don't care about. They also erroneously place too much value on their sexuality. Today's women have turned their backs on everything that makes them valuable to men... except sex. It's a recipe for exactly what we're seeing today... men just using women for sex because they have little else to offer.

sheenagwapa · Accepted Answer

i remember forcing my younger sister to buy a land, convincing my parents that we take 7/11 store franchise, ask my parents money for a nose job, money to but a lot of skincare products,
selling myself that i am a better potential partner despite the fact that my enemies/rivals are rich models. everyday and everynight i keep thinking how i can overcome my mental illness immediately so that my crush can accept me... i sleep for more or less a month without electricity it's like sleeping on a sauna motivating myself i need this and this is ok if the result is i can overcome my mental illness immediately so that my crush can accept me
i eat for the very first time on an open small eatery outside our subdivision gate because i was thinking he wants a woman who is good with monet, i live in a trash house

even my crusg mother and bestfriend or whoever cannot stand even the 3/8 or 2/8 of everything i did for love so based on my personal experience i don't think it's the female 😊

Sasha0426 · Accepted Answer

I mean…. anyone can think that. But, I’m leaning more towards women. They think they’re hot shit whenever a guy talks to them. Hell, a guy can just say hi and they’ll be like, “Oh my god! Did you see that? He was flirting! Do you think he’s gonna ask me out?” Like, damn woman. Chill out. You ain’t that special 🙄

Avicenna · Answer

Assuming the concept of leagues actually exists, this is not even close- it's women.

Anonymous · Answer

Women but it's mainly because most women are unrealistic.

A woman's criteria for a man. He has to be attractive. He has to be fit, he has to have good hair, skin nice eyes, nice smile. He has to be tall. He has to make "x" amount of money. He has to have a good education. He has to be funny, he has to be smart and witty. Her friends have to approve. She has to approve of his friends. I could keep going but you get the point.

Now, a man's typical criteria. She has to be attractive. And she has to be nice... done!😆😆😆

Anonymous · Answer

1. There are more men here so the answer will obviously be biased. If GAG had 50/50 men and women, the options would have been more evenly matched.

2. Most women will vote that men are more entitled and most men will vote that women are more entitled.

3. Men will say that women are more entitled but ignore what type of stuff they do to have allowed for that to happen. Mindlessly swiping right on dating apps, buying onlyfans, buying sex, and approaching a random girl and saying “hey you are cute can i get your number?” as their first sentence. So take a guess why they are entitled.

Jay3344 · Answer

A lot of people want to date out of their league. It’s natural to want to feel successful in the dating world. Many men like the idea of a trophy girlfriend and women like the idea of a 6’ + model man who makes tons of money. Honestly though I don’t know too many people who date and actually have lasting relationships with people who they don’t connect with on other levels. So both genders usually figure out that they are in the league they are in because they want other things besides the standard money, looks, stuff. It’s a good opener but not really a good keeper.

TheUniqueOne96 · Answer

Women from what I've seen. Land whales are apparently 10s and if you don't believe me you've got movements that praise women for not putting in effort.

TruthBringer · Answer

Women. Statistics of dating apps alone already prove this. There is a reason why the term "hypergamy" exists.

Twalli · Answer

Women think that any man should love them because all men want is sex, so if they give sex, they'll have any man they want regardless of how attractive he is.

lightbulb27 · Answer

Women can apply 1000's of accentuating products to create appearance of something they really are not. Men have to, moreso, carry themselves without such aid. women.

Ben487 · Answer

obviously its women. They think this way b/c they actually can get fucked by guys out of their league. They don't understand that there is zero potentiality of them becoming that man's partner.

FireGodGoesSeeknFire · Answer

The correct answer is women. I know why women said men, but its just that a few guys do this to every woman and so it happens a lot even if very few men is do it.

Adaeva · Answer

All girls can date above their league. No guy can date above his league.

Orion76 · Answer

If a Woman is attractive that’s pretty much all the credentials she needs in the dating market but for a guy, Where do I start lol

Texaskid1 · Answer

Women by far.  Plus with the advent of Instagram where young women shake their asses for likes it has become even more prevalent now that every women thinks she is a "queen" .

Anonymous · Answer

Women.. There is a science backed statistic that on dating apps, the women, even the low value ones (obese ugly ones) only want the top 5% of men, even when they dont deserve that top 5 % of men, where men swipe right 85% of the time.

Keishio · Answer

I just feel men have a much simpler thought process. I just want to find my partner physically attractive and I want her to be nice to me

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

There's no exact correct answer to this question.

A man that's ugly but rich thinks he's entitled to date beautiful women.

A woman who is beautiful but doesn't offer anything else thinks she deserves the best quality men. LOL

richardcory · Answer

I don't believe in leagues at all. Compatibility is what matters

asphaltrhymes · Answer

Surely I voted A, it has to be A. After all, I am A. ☮️☮️☮️✌🏻👀👀 Lol 😋

Anonymous · Answer

women are the only correct answer for this. they believe they're out of everyone's league themselves, while also not believing in leagues when it comes to what guys they want to date.

Deserter · Answer

Women, you admitted yourself you'd only date an 8 and up lol Most guys want a 5 or up. I'm a bif picky, I want a 6 and up, but I'm above average

Anonymous · Answer

Women date down all the time. Men often date up so of course they think they deserve someone out of their league

Anonymous · Answer

Well, maybe men because they would think they could get someone really attractive even if they’re not very, but if you mean on status terms, then women would try to be with someone that is really rich and they don’t have anything

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

Nobody is out on my leage they eat drink and shit just like me. Why would you think someone is out of your league cause society tells you so? That's bullshit

rabbitzzz · Answer

I don't know about others, but deserve miss universe.

Strong_Warrior · Answer

Women don't deserve anything because of feminism (misandry). Women just deserve to be spitted on and stepped on.

LiamJHayden · Answer

"Leagues" are a self-fulfilling prophecy for those who believe in them.

convo_king89 · Answer

Women have it too easy.. we have to work for it. So we should get a reward for our hard work.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

Most women don't even KNOW their league.

nawtee_me · Answer

That would depend on which gender believe there is a league to begin with...

peedy · Answer

Doesn't matter true love knows no league  But nobody cares about that anymore

Guanfei · Answer

Women. Then always aim at the top men, even when they look like train wrecks themselves

Anonymous · Answer

It depends on every individual, not on their gender.

Anonymous · Answer

Most women believe they are “a gift” and think that men should want them just because.

MikeTheBartender · Answer

I am loving your polls!

Anonymous · Answer

I think it’s women, but not all women.

Biancam13 · Answer

The poll is biased.

Greenbins · Answer

Definitely women

Jdjfjcjj · Answer

too many guys be sliding into yalls dms

Anonymous · Answer

There is no such thing as leagues.

Jennz6 · Answer

Always women

baseball_del_tuono · Answer

Is this a real question?

yuviii2012 · Answer

Women are pro at it...

LimitedBenefits101 · Answer

This one is too easy... WOMEN WOMEN WOMEN

Blacksnake285 · Answer

Women they got huge egos

Anonymous · Answer

Men and then they’ll cheat on them 🤦🏽‍♀️

welcomemen · Answer

Women

Date_a_Snob · Answer

Women

KrakenAttackin · Answer

Women by 1000 to 1.

NostalgiaSenpi · Answer

Women.

Kelly6 · Answer

women

HopelessGuy183 · Answer

Just get that vibe

eagle1951 · Answer

men.

Anonymous · Answer

Obviously men

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