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I work at a warehouse packing clothes in front of a computer. Since June I’ve been working the Night Shift. But I began not like it since October as I’m no longer packing now they put me upstairs where you just throw clothes on the conveyer belt super easy but you work surrounded by more people & they all gossip watch how you work or gossip any tiny error you make. I had some mean girls treat me bad during that area at the Night Shift so I went to the morning shift one month now. I have been packing but yesterday got sent upstairs. That will mean I might no longer be packing and be sent to work upstairs every time I work now even in the morning shfit.

Right now there’s overtime so morning shift is 5am to 3:30pm or 4:30pm

Night Shift 5pm to 3:30am or 4:30am

my body sleeps daily one hour at 2-3am and I need leave 4am to work.

my body is used to the Night Shift so I cannot sleep all night. I get tired and want sleep 2-3am to 11 morning. Only with night shfit I get proper & hours sleep and food.

i cannot concentrate driving anymore & don’t eat well during day shift as breaks are too short and I’m mostly working with own hour sleep only.

what should I do?

Mmm I don’t really care what you think, I just want y'all to know how I be feeling. Lol

Let's vote and see how many people truly want to have a child and how many don't.

Feel free to share your insights on this topic.

Well, Wales are now out of the cup but at least they stayed sober this time.
Now it's over is it time to send in the dragons?

I have the fortune of having had a father who treats everyone from CEO to maintenance worker the same. Labels & position mean nothing to him. Not due to a lack of intelligence or education he had a PhD, he just didn't care and judged people by their personality or their nature.

He was my greatest influence growing up so somebody's wealth doesn't mean anything to me. They're still a person and their personality nature etc far more important

Yesterday was Thanksgiving after spending a weekend at his mom's house we both caught the cold and got sick. I've been trying to care for myself and him and he has helped me too. However today he kept badgering me to make food for him although I am also sick and could barely stand up. My mother was supposed to bring us food but she ended up saying she couldn't until tomorrow, we were both hungry and I decided to roam in the fridge to make food. I made some corn and chicken fajitas all while trying to clean the kitchen all he did was comment on how I misplaced the handheld vacuum and how I wasn't making the meal he desired, even though we are low on food, we both ate and his mother brought leftovers, I told him later it hurt my feelings and how ungrateful I felt he was he issued a fake apology and even laughed while doing so, he also has done this before when I asked him to stop calling me racial slurs and names like "monkey, thick skull, and sometimes n word" I'm not his general type I am dark he likes light or mixed and I truly genuinely believe that if I was the girl he wanted he would respect me more and treat me better.

Personally I feel like I am average looking and that people generally just look at others without thinking much.

Sometimes I'm very insecure and then my boyfriend tells me that a lot of people stare at me when we're outside.

28F, I've been asked if I’m asexual when I share my lack of sex drive & dating experience. I haven’t masturbated in years or had sex, if I never have it again I don’t think I’d be too upset. I don’t know if my looks are the issue I don’t think they are, there’s clearly a lot of other people worse off that find relationships lol. I’ve only used the dating apps since I don’t have a social life, getting likes/matches/msgs aren’t the issue it’s finding a connection. I find a lot of men attractive, have celebrity crushes etc. I’m attracted to men but with the men I’ve communicated with throughout the years, I’m turned off by their asshole tendencies. I know there’s good guys out there, regardless of how genuine they seem deep down I know they’re conceited & that behavior will come out eventually. Maybe I’m bitter or just lost interest in finding a guy to date, in a way I feel like I’m saving myself from that unnecessary frustration. I have a very short fuse but I’ll let you all put in your two cents

I had a condo for 3 years and sold it recently. I got a good amount of money from the sale & decided to move back in with family to save money towards the down payment on a future home. I’m saving my paychecks but know being almost 30 & living with family can be frowned upon.

In my eyes it implies she has sex with anyone on the first date.

I am trying to figure it out because I rather like this guy, and would like to make this long-term with the potential for marriage if all works out. But at the same time, I know guys have a different ideologies on sex and sexual activities than women.

So I like being alone. And every time im with someone I ALWAYS feel like the other person is judging me or doesn’t like me. Like I can’t get rid of these thoughts which is why I prefer to always be alone.

So my boyfriend and I have been a little over a year and this year we decided to go in on gifts for our families. I mentioned to him that I would pay for my family and he would pay his half, then he would pay for his family and I would pay my half. So recently we talked about going Christmas Shopping (which we ended up doing) he said we would talk about how were going to do it, so when it came to paying I said I can pay you in cash and then you can pay for it, he was hesitant to buy it so i ended up paying for it and was $2 short. He seems to be a bit short with a couple things, yes its not much but it will all add up in due time.

These are cottage core dresses lol

I heard my boyfriend has a crush on another girl since the beginning of the school year in August. She recently joined his group for a class project so now they have each other’s numbers. I also heard my boyfriend would check her out a lot so I think he definitely has a crush and thinks she’s attractive

I know several guys like her so I’m kind of worried that he might go with her if she asks him even though he’s my boyfriend. What are the chances he would rather go with her?

It's a yes from me!

I wish more men wore skirts honestly. Especially if you have the legs for it, it's so attractive, but also just cause it would give you more options for clothes, it's cooler in warm months, and you maybe wouldn't have to adjust your junk as often if you didn't have pants up between your legs all the time.

Skirts aren't even feminine, they're just sexier than most pants. And they do sell men's skirts. Just may have to find them online instead of in stores cause a lot of big brands are still being ninnies about it.

I was discussing this with my friend. I told her that no girl would ask a guy that unless there was mutual attraction because it can give off the wrong signal otherwise.

moreover, asking a guy that question is a signal that the girl is also interested, no?