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Scammers (future fakers too) can fake a relationship and even get money from her. They are still playing their game while and after having sex.

Players are the ones that do and say anything to get into our pants. That's their game, just getting pumping and dumping. They made the girl think a connection has been made.

Both are users. But do you consider scammers (con-artists) worse than players? Or same?

Which one would you rather have: Your dream partner or your dream career?

It is for me. I usually work so much during the holidays. Best time to make extra money.

How about you?

I work remotely so only interactions I’ve had with these people are through teams. I’ve been there almost a year, so far I haven’t had any negative interactions with the people on my team. Today after we all met my boss sends me message separately wanting to speak. She started it with saying that she doesn’t want to read into my body language during the meeting too much but it looked like I rolled my eyes & she wanted to know there’s something I’d want to discuss with her. I told her no & had to ask if this was the first time I gave this impression. She said no it’s happened enough for her to want to bring it up today. I told her it’s been a few stressful weeks & it’s all fatigue, if I did it’s nothing against her. But if she’s been saying I’ve been doing this for a while then I have no excuse to back that up. I have two monitors, one on top of desk & other at eye level so I had to bring that up, she said she didn’t want to bring it up at our 1:1. I told her that I’m pretty responsive communication wise & didn’t think overall I came across that way, I said that to imply that I have no issue communicating with her. I’ve been pretty open with her, she said her bringing this up had nothing to do with my work ethic this is all regarding “attitude”. With all the communication we’ve had in the past, she’s said positive things for the most part & this is the first time I really felt tense talking to her. She honestly seemed kind of upset, tomorrow is our 1:1 for the month & I’m kinda nervous.

I did it a few times lol 😆 😂 😅 🤣

By that I don’t mean just not having enough, like now I have more than enough to live well i have a good job but I still find myself in saving mode, and worrying that I’m not saving enough or not investing properly etc. Also worrying that jobs are just temporary

do you ever feel happy about money and content, looking at the bigger picture and having a good balance between spending and saving? Any advice?

Ps now I have no kitchen just a weird empty corner. Shud I love the black table back to the kitchen?

They had a dog and they both have a pic of her on their header but its a different man on her profile picture and she has a different last name
She isn't in his profile picture nor is she anywhere on his insta at least i think
he's been using dating apps and claims he was single and no wedding ring

Im fairly sure theyve split up at least?

Assume you’re attracted to her or him but also know that they recently went on a date with someone else. Would you still ask them out (if you are also single)?