Polls

All my relatives are 28, late 30s to 40s with kids, bought a home, and earn a lot of money. I seem to be the youngest turning 25 and a black sheep ignored. Everyone is older 30-40 & rich showing off their home they bought. I’m young but I’m the only person that has lived in a studio home with a small business. Everyone else in my family had none of that my age. Just living with parents broke or party. I don’t talk to any of my family at all. I’m alone or see boyfriend. Also my family members became stuck up as they have good job or earn more money, which is sad to see. Everyone in my family ignores me , no one asks about my life or business, they r just distant gone. Don’t care of me. I don’t have kids so I don’t need buy a home yet. Maybe in 10 years when I’m 35. Or meantime I can live with a boyfriend when I have a baby in a nice townhouse Big apartment. i don’t want be rich or stuck up. I want simple life , no competing, just enjoy my home and partner that’s it. I don’t desire be rich have expensive things.

Here comes the toughest MCQ ever! Well I know the answer 🙃

I mean I feel bad for them but it’s like grow a spine.

• Do you believe in monogamous or non-monogamous relationships?
• Which do/would you practice?
• Why?

I believe in and practice monogamy. I value the exclusivity between 2 partners only, because I personally don’t think I would want to “share” or love more than one person in a romantic or sexual manner... I don’t believe in or practice non-monogamous relationships, however, people are free to do as they please.

How do you handle conflict? With a partner, friendship, work, family, etc?

Competing -
Value of own issue/goal: High
Value of relationship: Low
Result: “I win, you lose”
Competitors come across as aggressive, autocratic, confrontational and intimidating. "Standing up for your right."

Accommodating -
Value of own issue/goal: Low
Value relationship: High
Result: “I lose, you win”
Accommodators set aside their own needs because they want to please others in order to keep the peace.

Avoiding -
Value of own issue/goal: Low
Value of relationship: Low
Result: “I lose, you lose”
Avoiders deliberately ignore or withdraw from a conflict rather than face it. Avoiders do not seem to care about their issue or the issues of others. People who avoid the situation hope the problem will go away, resolve itself without their involvement or rely on others to take the responsibility.

Compromising -
Value of own issue/goal: Medium
Value of relationship: Medium
Result: “I win some, you win some”
Compromisers are willing to sacrifice some of their goals and persuade others to give up theirs, too–give a little, get a little. Compromise maintains the relationship and can take less time than other methods but resolutions may focus on demands rather than needs or goals.

Collaborating -
Value of own issue/goal: High
Value of relationship: High
Result: “I win, you win”
Collaboration generates creative solutions that satisfy all the parties’ concerns and needs. Collaborators identify the underlying concerns, test assumptions and understand the views of others. Collaboration fosters respect, trust and builds relationships. Collaborators address the conflict directly and in a way that expresses willingness for all parties to get what they need.

Do you cuckshame women too? I have the impression that nobody say anything when a popular degenerate rapper/singer have many side chicks, or even sing/rap about cheating on their partner. Am i missig something? I usually use internet for Gag or for school. After i see the public reaction towards will Smith i was shocked. Do people dont know that open relationship/ marriage and cheating are a thing in hollywood lol? Such things are so normal in hollywood so far I know.

Sorry for this weird question lol