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No… When he’s in town and/or on leave, he spends time with me on holidays. He makes it a priority because he is a part of family.
He lets me know in advance if he cannot attend the holiday with me, or if he will be out of town, or busy that day. He doesn’t ignore me or not text me all day, he keeps in touch.
I think that is a bit of a concern for you, because if he lives 10 minutes away, and doesn’t talk to you all day, doesn’t invite you over, or try to spend time with you, what is he doing?
Does he spend it with family? Does he explain why he can’t spend it with you? Why doesn’t he message you? There is a lot of context missing. Please chime me in, and tell me the situation…
Do you guys not plan or communicate what is going to happen on holidays? Do you guys not say, “hey, next week is ___, what’s your plans? Are you visiting family? Do you want to come over?”
Does he usually spend the holidays with his family? It’s kinda sus tbh tho, I don’t wanna be negative but he could been spending the holidays with someone else… unless you know for sure that he’s spending them with his family/friends then the fact that he ignores your texts is not a red flag. He’s probably busy enjoying the company of his family/friends.
A lot of couples also prefer to celebrate the holidays separately especially when they’ve only been dating for a short period of time. If it’s important for you to be spending the holidays together then I think you need to have a discussion with him and see if you guys can find a compromise.
My girlfriend and I started dating in the summer of 2018, we didn't have much time for holidays before COVID-19. When possible we spend holidays together. The benefit is that my parents are close with her, her parents are close with me, and our parents are close with each other. This makes it easy to arrange spending holidays with each other, or their families, because there's easy communication.
People simply just celebrate holidays separately with families, it's just how people grow up celebrating, plan a thing together for your next holiday, obviously without communication, you won't get results, well... good results
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I wouldn't know. The one SERIOUS relationship I was in ended in disaster & even though it's been 22 years later I still don't trust my own judgment when it comes to a woman. Like, if they get too close I'll burn that bridge like no other, even though it's the exact opposite of what I want. Everyone wonders why I'm single too which makes it worse. Being a Venus in Cancer sucks:(
that is a bad sign for sure, i would be worried a lot if i were you.
i would talk to him, and if he is a man he will be honest with you, he will be straight with you if not you need to get rid of him.
i had a massive business deal yesterday on Easter which turned out to be a giant waste of time. 11 hours down the drain for nothing. the agent had no information and was going back and forth with me on a deal all she did was waste my time and by 10:30pm i was so fucking pissed off
No, cuz I’ve never had a boyfriend. And I’d rather not have one than have a piece of trash like yours. You should rethink your relationship.
That's really lousy that he didn't spend it with you. That says something about him. He doesn't care too much.
for goodness sake let him spend time with his family in peace
I guess your boyfriend lives too far from you?
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