Polls

I am 5.7 and I have been made to believe that most girls wouldn't like me because of that

Who of you wants to turn into a beautiful lady and be cute and enjoy life as a woman and shamelessly indulge in girly stuff and feel like you are worth it and don't have to put up a facade of tough-guy-emotionlessness and wear cute and pretty clothes, skirts, dresses, heels, pantyhose, sparkly stuff, makeup and rock a gorgeous and long hairstyle and wear flowers or trinkets in your hair and be actually aesthetically and physically attractive (and i mean super attractive) and not being required to build muscles like a bodybuilder and look like a female treasure on the photos and having eyes looking your way since you are a beautiful ladyboy, that looks just like a beautiful and sexy woman and feel the whole fun of life as a beautiful and sexy woman?

*raises hand*

I just broke up with an Italian girl I was dating. I saw photos of her going out with friends in party clothing. God knows what she’s doing whether she’s talking to more guys, kissing dudes etc... There’s no way to find out.

But is not coming up to you or showing any interest in a bar.

This should be a variable in economic measurements. Fck GDP. How many border jumpers are there this month? Lots. Oh good.

"We don't have money". I first heard that when I was 9 years old. I couldn't have candy or pepsi cola or juice or something to eat at school.

This grew into a bigger problem over time. I had less clothes to wear by the age of 12. I walked with holes in shoes and one time the shoes were even openly exposing my feet and I walked like that to school in Germany. Got bullied and mobbed.

I brought this up several times to my parents and I felt either ignored, dismissed or attacked (they were toxic and abusive). I picked up on that pattern of outcome and that it's pointless to ask for new clothes, shoes and food for lunch. So I stopped asking and could do nothing but let life proceed and focus on fast forwarding my life until I could make my own money while feeling like I was set on fire from poverty. I was 15 years old when I stopped asking. I considered getting money and essentials is on me and no one else (duh!).

It also got me thinking on a secondary question. If i were to go on a date with a girl and she asks about my childhood and I say it like it is, would that send her running away from me?

joining the dating market at 40 is like going to the bufet at 1:30pm

Not that it's a competition, cuz everyone obviously sees things differently