Do you think it’s hard to trust?

[Anonymous]

I just broke up with an Italian girl I was dating. I saw photos of her going out with friends in party clothing. God knows what she’s doing whether she’s talking to more guys, kissing dudes etc... There’s no way to find out.

I agree it’s hard to trust

No I don’t agree

[Flatmanlewis]

This is two topics to me.
1/ is it hard to trust? Sometimes. Depends on who we’re talking about, their history with me, and other factors.


2/ Is there a problem with a girl going out with her friends in ‘party clothes’ (what exactly is that even)? No, I don’t really think so. Now, of course let’s be reasonable. If she’s wearing some fetish attire to a swinger party then I think you have a legit concern. If she’s simply wearing fitted clothing which shows off her figure AND she’s out with her female friends, well, you may be a little off base. Women like to be pretty and noticed and go places with their friends. These things don’t make her any less trustworthy than not. She’s not a nun because she’s in a relationship with you. Unless this was a topic of conversation and agreement when you met, I don’t think you have a real position to complain here.


In fact, as a man I like a beautiful woman in my life. Why would I want a beautiful woman then wish to suppress the very feminine qualities that contribute to her being beautiful? (Clothing style included).

[Nikki1989]

Men like you shouldn't be dating at all. You are obviously too insecure.

[Asker]

Women get what they deserve. A girl with common sense would avoid putting themselves in a situation where guys will hit on them if they have a partner