Polls

I always enjoy the aesthetic of Christmas lights in neighborhoods, town and city centers, etc, probably disproportionate to the amount I’m even into the holiday of Christmas.

I’m always bummed when January rolls around, just as winter is really getting started, and all the lights come down (other than that one neighbor we all have, haha). Christmastime is mostly late fall, other than four days. So we’ve blown our wad here in the first week of winter.

Where I'm from, winter sucks. It’s cold, it’s slippery, and snow is nice for a couple of hours and then it becomes a dirty, slushy mess. These are the times when I wish I had the pick-me-up of Christmas lights, but they’re usually gone by the time real winter weather comes along.

So…. what if we switched it up a little? What if Christmastime just kind of ushered in “Winter Lights” season, people could decorate as they currently do, but just everyone does it, whether you do Christmas or not. Then, after Christmas, we just leave it up the rest of winter, but you take down the Santas and the reindeer and anything else specific to Christmas. I just think it would be cool to keep those good feelings rolling all the way through March.

Now, I don’t know how this plays out in warmer climates, or the Southern Hemisphere, I haven’t thought it all the way through yet, lmao.

But yeah, what would you all think about lights all winter?

This woman has a boyfriend but she misses this guy who blocked her. She’s like 23-25 and she says the guy who blocked her will always be her best friend but she says she misses him and she has cried a few times about him and she really really misses him like it’s unreal

The other guy gave her attention all the time and was supporting her all the time in everything she did and he was a real friend to her

She told the other guy that she liked him but then they stopped talking because she ended up being with someone else and he doesn’t feel comfortable talking to her because she has a boyfriend

All her friends think she likes the guy who blocked her but she denies it. It’s hard to tell honestly. What do you think?

So lets say you’re in a new relationship and your partner decides to cook you something out of love. Unfortunately what they cooked for you is something you don’t like and didn’t tell them that yet.

would you still try it anyways or inform them that its not something you like?

A argument happened and she asks for space and comeback saying she lost feelings but wants to stay friends, but I reply back with not wanting to be friends.

only asking bc apparently she claims it’s me bc she wanted the door open by staying friends so she could decide later, and I wasn’t ok with that especially when our argument was about miss treatment and targeting self worth and me being the only one who even believed it being an issue

we were friends before if that affects anything.

Her best friend told she already rejected a proposal and she is not that much interested in relationships