Questions

I'm planning a gift for my boyfriend and since green is his favorite color (and to make it look a little less girly) I thought of making his gift mainly (pastel) green and pink, since it's a very romantic and sentimental gift.

Although red is also a romantic color, together with green it translates into Christmas, so I'd rather go with pink since it's also quite romantic (and hey, pink is my favorite color!).

And get that gift for them?
Considering that you know this person pretty well and have totally no clue what to get for them.

So what do you think about this one. In many relationships people exchange gifts. Would you ever consider asking something back after a break up? For example if you have given family jewelry or something expensive, would you consider asking the gift back? Or is it extremely rude in every situation?

I probably sound dumb for asking this but I'm trying to send a housewarming gift from Georgetown Cupcakes and my friend's allergic to chocolate and soy so I'm trying to be mindful and not send something she can't enjoy with her family.