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I’ve known this woman for years. She’s a couple years older than me. When she was a school girl and we were younger. She did stuff to get my attention and flirted with me on a regular basis. I met her because she laughed loudly at my joke and at great length then asked me to repeat it the. After I talked to her teased me. She butted in my conversations to try to talk to me ask me to repeat stuff or laugh at unfunny stuff I said. Found any excuse to talk to me hovered around me to try to talk to me approaching me with her friend. She’d giggle and say my name for no reason and when I looked at her. Compliment me a lot and find any excuse to compliment me. Get red while talking to me, smile and make no eye contact and hide her face. Blush and smile when I say hi. Couldn’t look me in the eyes or say hi first. When I talked to her she’d ask for a selfie with me for me to come from across the room and sit next to her and ask me to get closer to her before every one. When she wore something showing her boobs her friend came and got me for a selfie and blushed. Said my name a lot in a warm tone if I said something bad. Tease me after I talk to her. Stare at me every opportunity when I’m not looking. I see her around. As I got older I went to her work and she sat in a place that had a clear view of me and where I could see her then stared at me. I went to a store and she was in a car laughing loudly and when I looked at her turned her head and made a big smile. Dipped her head and raised her eyebrows then widened her eyes. held eye contact and didn’t stop and when I broke it continued staring and watched me leave. I ignored her and after that she had an attitude seeing me. I worked with her and I caught her secretly staring at strange places. I go to the same college as her. saw me in a classroom and went in then stared at me secretly. shows up 30 mins early for that class after seeing me and walks by looks at me walks by
4x and stands in the door then waits by it

I am an Introvert. I am a good-looking guy. Been wearing Goth for years. What should I wear now? I am quiet but if a person talks first, I'll talk.

This isn't about physical strength, as most women are weaker than men physically due to biology.

It's more about an overall look, women have many advantages over men because they were once seen as weaker. With modern laws these weakness they once had are gone, yet they still benefit from people seeing them as weaker.

Examples:
Women once often got paid much less or didn't even have jobs.
So it was gentlemanly to pay for them as they could provide for themselves.
In Europe at least, women have fair pay and access to all jobs men do.

So we should let go of the benefit they got because they don't suffer the reason why it was given to them in the first place.

Traditionally women were rarely ever in places of power, so it was seen as normal for men to approach when it came to relationships.

But nowadays a woman can be as hierarchly powerful as a man can be. So it should be normal practice for both sides to approach.

Yet some women still think it's a man's job.

These old standards need to be removed for equity to be achieved, women aren't weaker anymore so they don't need to have these social practices in place to help them.