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I hit on my coworker “Sharon”
She’s Big in the back area if you catch my drift

My exact words were
“You look good, are you married?”

She seemed flattered, she thanked me, & Said Yes. That Conversation Ended immediately & Respectfully.
I should mention she’s twice my age, I’m
into older women

I know women Gossip, I think she told our other coworker “Tina”.
Tina is an old loud mouthed fart.

She usually talks my ear off, but hasn’t said a word to me since that day.

Was what I did really that wrong?
Is it really that serious?

The definition of “creep” is that a person (usually male) is has a likely potential to be a rapist.

In some scenarios this insult is fully justified i. e. cat callers, older men flirting (actual flirting not just talking to) with underage girls, etc. I’ll gladly call guys like that creeps too. They clearly crossed the line.

But more often than not I see women calling guys “creeps” just because they don’t like them. A perfect example would be an innocent yet unattractive guy who just says hello to you. Or worse when a woman labels a guy a “creep” when he zero interaction with her but she doesn’t like his appearance and/or he is socially awkward.

The vast majority of men don’t go around labeling women sluts just because they don’t like them.

I ask this because it seems like all the assholes get the girls and the guys that are nice don't. Do you guys think that assholes (people who are clearly after one thing from the beginning, dont call back, pretty much dont care at all), the nice guys (people who try to be considered the perfect guy in every aspect, overly delivering), or the laid back guy (people who are pretty quiet but pretty fun to be around but sort of nonchalant "chilling personality") have the best chances of attracting women.

As for myself, im laid back. Im considered very funny but i dont really let women know i like them. I just chill with them, have a good time, flirt back a bit if she does first and leave it like that. If it get hot, i reciprocate whatever she does pretty much, but im to myself mostly. I tend to attract women but at a slower pace.

My older brother is the asshole. He starts off hinting at sex and how he likes freaky shit, seems to work wonders lmao. I dont get it.