10 Questions Guys Have Always Wanted Women To Answer

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10 Questions Guys Have Always Wanted Women To Answer


This shortened list is hailing from "Thought Catalog." So what do you want to know?

1. After thousands of years, why haven’t you realized that we don’t pick up on subtle hints?

Blame it on society! Yes! Women don't often get rewarded as much as guys do for putting it all out there and going in and being more aggressive with our flirting. There are still a lot of guys that don't like this (yes, we know many of you are dying for us to make the first move!) So we are subtle and still hope after 1,000 years, you'll get the hint-hint!

10 Questions Guys Have Always Wanted Women To Answer

2. What do you store in your handbags? Seriously, there seems to be an item for every occasion?

There was a trend a while back called, what's in my purse where women were showing exactly what is in there (you can check it out). Aside from the basics: keys, IDs/cards, wallet, phone, receipts...it depends on the lifestyle of the woman. If you literally want to know, I currently have make-up, snacks, sunglasses, medication, mace, vax card, extra masks, lotion, perfume, tampon, mints, pen, paper notes, gloves, stamps, and a bunch of coins.

3. If your S/O is unable to perform sometimes, do you think about it? Does it affect you and your wish to stay/leave said person?

I think I would only linger and think about it if it were happening all the time because it might suggest something is wrong other than just you were tired, stressed, or not, well, up for it, that day. I don't think my first thought would be, oh I have to leave you now. I'd want to know if you were okay and if there was anything you, I, or we could do especially if the sex was great otherwise.

4. Why do you go to the bathroom in groups?

a)lines are long for the women's room, so taking a friend gives you someone to talk to while we wait. b)we absolutely 100% are talking about you sometimes c) it can be a safety issue especially if you're at some sketch club or concert d) we might need some real time truth from our girlfriends, like are we totally blowing the double date or did our breath smell like onions

5. Is there a female equivalent of “smelling hands after scratching balls”?

Most women at some point on their period have sprung a leak--period came early or blood overflow from tampon/pad use. Old dried blood and fluids do not smell great, so we may sneak off to a bathroom or bend down to "tie our shoe" in class to check.

10 Questions Guys Have Always Wanted Women To Answer

6. Why is it when attractive guys do something, it's “cute and romantic” but when an ugly one doing the same thing, it's “creepy.”

I 100% support your frustration on this. If 'some dude' did even a 10th of what let's say Christian Grey did IRL, we would be long gone. Hot guys can get away with just about anything. It's pretty privledge, cut and dry...but before you get on your high horse, let the hottest girl you've ever seen accidentally throw up on your lap. I guarantee you guys would be grossed out, yes, but would clean up as quick as possible and still try to flirt with her if she showed even the slightest interest!

7. What do girls talk to each other about when talking about guys?

Our girls are our unpaid therapists when it comes to our relationships and our feelings about guys. We. Talk. About. Everything. I mean what kind of real in depth conversation am I going to get if I asked a guy friend, what he thinks about our mutual friend Mark. He's going to say, he's cool, but our girls are going to break it down like a case on CSI: Mark used to date Kelly with the one braid, they broke up because she cheated, he found out when the dude texted her and he checked the phone, Mark was the QB in high school but he wasn't that good, he's sort of smart and cheesy, but you'll like that, he lives on the north side of campus in the good quads, drives a truck, works at the bookstore MWF if you want to scope him out, he has only one dimple, he's in some club or whatever, wait, let me call his sister, she can give us more deets...

8. Why do you wear such provocative clothing but complain about creepy people checking you out.

We want to be checked out by non creepy guys but unfortunately there is no way to weed out the creeps in the process. NEVER in your life will it ever be your right or okay to touch or make nasty inappropriate comments juuuussstt because we're wearing something sexy. Clarification: "you look sexy/nice/hot" okay for a good portion of women but "I want to f them big t-ts you sl-t,"...like, just why?!? And yes, whether you believe it or not is unimportant to us because WE (remember you're asking about us) know it's true, but wearing something sexy is NOT always about you and what guys will think. Sometimes we wear something sexy because it makes us feel confident AF, like we're running the place or if we got our hair and nails done and we're not for one bloated, an outfit can add to that awesome feeling.

10 Questions Guys Have Always Wanted Women To Answer

9. Just because we find a member of the opposite sex attractive, doesn’t mean we’d have sex with them if we had the chance. Why does it set a trigger off in your head?

Truth, women check out guys too that are not their S/O but we tend to be ninjas about it, quick glance and we're out. I think we get pissed in one of two situations, one, because you are lingering, not glancing and you're doing it long enough for us to notice. Secondly, it's when we're talking to you or being really sweet to you or you're in mid conversation and you full stop stop, checking someone else out. It's like, why am I here?!? It can be hurtful even if we know deep down you'd never. I'm just saying, if I lingered on some guy, and was like, "but it's a girl thing, and I can't help it," in what world would you be cool with that reasoning 100% of the time?

10. How much of a turn off is a 30-year-old virgin?

There are very few true 30 year old virgins who proudly claim this title, and I gather same for women. SOCIETAL/PEER PRESSURE makes it clear, that a man's virginity past a certain age is practically worthless. Especially the older you get, man or woman, people tend to want someone they don't have to explain how to put the condom on, or what to do to really get you where you want to be going, so for SOME women, it can be a deal breaker (again, same for men), but I think as long as you and they aren't making some huge deal out of it, I think a lot of women are cool with it or at least curious how you made it out of your 20s still 'chaste and virtuous.'

10 Questions Guys Have Always Wanted Women To Answer
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