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A while back the loner of my year texted me and told me he was gay and asked me if I. too, were homosexual. Since I'm only 17 and haven't experience anything I told him as of that moment in time I was bisexual. Bisexual because I'm attracted to women but have found myself attracted to particular males. Yes, it sounds gay when I put it like that. Anyway, over the time that person kept texting me and now all of a sudden he asked me to meet in the woods so we could "do it". "No", I yelled "Jesus, help me", I prayed and told the guy I wouldn't want that - naturally. The sole reason why I kept texting him back was because I feared he was going to kill himself I didn't say anything he might like. What do I do? If I tell that guy I'm disgusted by him he might send everyone a text revealing my sexual orientation! No problem. that is since I'm pretty sure I'm not homosexual nor bisexual anymore (mostly because of that experience) so I could easily tell people he was lying. But if he sends a screenshot of our conversations it might kill my social status which is bad already!

Do I tell him I'm disgusted by him and risk being the reason for a suicide?

Or do I just keep him on hold and make him think I'm interested?

What's your opinion?

(About my sexual orientation; I'm pretty uncomfortable talking to that person, of course the way nature intended it to be is sweeter. I already have a gal, I just need to confess to her...)

should weed be illegal or legal? comment your views and reasoning for your opinion! my view - I think weed should be legal globally. it is far less harmful than alcohol. I believe that a big part of weed being illegal is that alcohol business has the monopoly on being the "party" drug and so feel threatened by weed so have invested in the demonising of weed. historically hemp was once required by law to be grown by everyone in the uk as it's fibrous property was great for making rope. i think people under the influence of weed are a lot nicer than drunks, do you ever see stoners brawling in the streets? with weed being illegal it forces the business into organised criminals that profit in the unregulated market. if it was legalised it can be taxed and regulated removing the income from organised crime organisations. advice given in strength like you know the % of alcohol in drinks. there are many papers suggesting medical benefits of weed, further research is hindered by the current illicit status of the drug. people can overdose on alcohol. requiring medical emergency services to intervene, pumping stomachs. it's a lot harder to get to a dangerous level of thc (the effective drug in weed). another thought on the matter I've had recently is do you respect the law of the land you are in even if you think it's wrong? so you perceive the law to be unjust. e. g. would you stop being gay in countries where being gay is illegal? so likewise, if you think weed should be legal would you stop doing it? I think you need a balance of things in life, too much of anything is bad. too much alcohol fucks you up, too much weed too regularly can fuck you up. but if people have an honest education on these matters they should be able to regulate themselves instead of trying to brainwash kids in school that drugs are gonna a fry your brain like an egg. people who do have trouble with any drug, alcohol, weed, heroin whatever should be able to access tax funded support

(I'm not asking if YOU accept one more than the other. I mean do you think its less accepted in general. to most people)
I think so.
You know how some people believe that men say they're bi because they're too afraid to admit they're gay?
For me its the opposite. My family thinks i'm gay because im dating a guy and i'm not gonna correct them because im too afraid to admit to them that im bi lol
I know their opinions on bisexuality, and they aren't positive opinions. They think being gay is fine but then being bi is gross or weird or greedy.
so i'm not telling them shit. i dont have to tell them shit. its none of their business :PP

I'm not saying there's anything wrong with being gay, in my opinion every child needs a mother & a father.
you may be mad at me for saying this but i don't believe any child should grow up with 2 dads, or 2 moms.

every child needs a mother figure, and a father figure to balance things out.
There's certain things no gay couple can do for their child.
It may be different for each couple, but for my family, there were things my mom could do that my dad couldn't... vice versa...

Like one time when my best friend was punched in the nose, my mom couldn't do anything, all she could do was call the police, but my dad was so upset, he went looking for the guys that punched my friend.
Also my dad didn't baby me up, he toughened me up.
So whenever i was hurt he'd be like
"Brush it off you're fine, don't cry about it"

my mom on the other hand would just about cry with me whenever i hurt myself...
it has to be balanced...

Well what do you think?
all i can say is, i'm glad i grew up with a mom and a dad.
i wouldn't want two moms, or two dads.