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I see some guy's complaining because women in general don't ask men out. And if the invitee is suppose to pay for the date asked for and planned that leaves them still being the ones paying for all the first dates. They scream IT'S NOT FAIR!!! The problem today is some people including some women think we should be completely equal despite the fact that we are too different to be completely equal. For one thing biologically we are made different which is gonna make us think differently and behave differently. Also until men can start carrying and delivering babies we will not be equal. I think you can deal with asking women out. You don't have to fork out a bunch of money. You can find cheap or free places to get to know her.

Now if you still think it's not fair then don't ask women out. Find a way to get them to notice you and hope for the best.

And before the guys that complain about these issues jump my a$$ because some women think we should be equal in every way too. Just know I don't agree with them either. I know there are some things men are better at and somethings women are better at generally speaking.

I am 26, Aquarius, graphic designer, Filipino/German.
Been in 1st relationship from 15-20 years & 2nd from 20-25.
After breakup I signed up on tinder cuz I am a sexual person.
Met a guy there. He’s 21, Capricorn, Business Student, French/German.
He loves football, guitar, chess and karate.

Had first date at his place for three days by the end of April 2019.
We smoked & had such a great chemistry so we had Sex the first night. He was amazed by the Intensity. Probably because I am more experienced than him, what made it even more enjoyable for me.

The day after, we had casual conversations and he mentioned his “Belgian Girl” he fell in love with. & showed me his ex girlfriends on insta (Was that a strategy?) >stroked my ego and made me fall for him!

Haven’t chatted for a week after our date, then I initiated contact & since then we chat or have phone calls regularly.

He works with his boss on their startup in Africa until January 2020. Because I’m a Graphic Designer I started working for them what actually made up 90% of the contact and conversations.
He also offered me to rent his apartment while he isn’t here. So I moved in July 2019.
He visited me here for a week, because he had to repeat an exam. (I wasn’t the reason for his visit)
He brought me a souvenir bracelet (does it have a meaning?)

Got to know his roommate & she said he was “looking for a relationship but is a player and into taken girls.” His friends like me by the way.
When he and I chat, we never talk about sex. We actually became good friends and he trusts me (after this short time?)
He invited me to join him & his best friend to Africa in January (wouldn’t do that if he’s just into sex?)

Temporarily he’s in Hamburg (550 km away from my location) for three months before he goes back to Africa. He updated his Tinder profile. (Because I’m too far & he‘s too lazy?)
He has to pass by for three days by the end of December 2019, in order to repeat another exam.
He’ll move to France by June 2020 for 2 years.

Hey everyone.

I am proud to have my life together. I don't have debt and I'm a home owner.

Last night I was talking to a man and he is 40K in debt (Not his fault) and was homeless 3 times. He isn't homeless anymore. But still In debt.

I advised him that it would be better off to turn his life around and work off the debt before he starts dating. I was honest and told him that I don't want to date him because he would probably want money from me to pay it off.
He wasn't happy and said that it would be best if he wasn't honest in the first place until someone gets to know him THEN he will share this information. I blocked him because I didn't have time to engage in this foolishness.
Is what I did wrong?