Search Results: getting attached

Can you read this and determine if it was rejection or something else?

So, I don’t usually ask women out on a date via text, but in this situation I did. I had class at university with this woman, but we rarely interacted with one another and when we did I don’t think she ever really...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

Relationship before relations……why give someone a piece of you if you are not in a relationship with them?

I am never having sex again unless I am in a relationship. Relationship before relations. I can’t have sex without getting attached because I feel like I am giving a person apart of me. I rather stay detached, then to be...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What should I do?

Okay, so this is gonna kind of be long but I need some opinions okay so there was this guy that I really liked freshman year of high school he was my crush let's call him James and well he started to like me too so we...

Msssgirlll

Xper 2 Age: 20

Should I let him know I’m getting attached to him?

I've been seeing a guy for the past month. We aren’t anything but he’s been taking me out on dates, been making out, things are getting hotter and we’re talking about sex. We Text all day everyday. I know the first night...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I’m afraid that I’m just a chat buddy to him. How van I know if he’s interested romantically?

Before I always used to message him first. I asked him about it. He said my bad and that he will reach out first next time. He kept his promise and initiates texts too. We often chat around bed time. Does that show that...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

I thought men don’t send long texts and explain their behaviour if they have no interest?

He was on boys trip (I didn’t first know about it) when we chatted last time. It took him 12h-22hours to reply to my texts. They were quite short too unlike his previous message. To me they felt dry compred to previous...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is he starting to like me?

I’ve just been talking for a while through instagram. We aren’t dating. He was on boys trip (I didn’t first know about it) when we chatted last time. It took him 12h-22hours to reply to my texts. They were quite short...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is he starting to care about me and/ or like me?

We aren’t dating. We’ve just been talking for a while through instagram. He was on boys trip (I didn’t first know about it) when we chatted last time. It took him 12h-22hours to reply to my texts. They were quite short...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Does he care about me?

We aren’t dating. We’ve just been talking for a while. He was on boys trip (I didn’t first know about it). It took him 12h-22hours ti reply to my texts. They were quite short too unlike his previous message. I got...

Anonymous

(30-35)

When a guy says he’s not looking for a relationship right now?

I had a guy say he’s not looking for a relationship because he has too much going on right now. He still wants to hang out and I made it clear that I’m not looking to just hook up which he understood. He seems like a busy...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What am I supposed to do?

So, a few weeks ago I met this guy in a shop. I gave him my snap and we started snapping back and forth. One day he went to a sleepover and I assume he shared my snap with his friends since one of them offered to help me...

Anonymous

(Under 18)

Family & Friends

Hello! Question for anyone here who has been adopted: do you find that you have attachment issues with friends, relationships, etc?

Hello! I was adopted at a very young age to two white parents. 3 of my biological siblings where also adopted with me. From what I’ve been told, my mother was not fit to take care of us so we were placed in foster care,...

mrsalyssaefron

Xper 3 Age: 32

Why would boyfriend distance himself as time was nearing to potentially leave the country for another job if he was offered it?

He did talk to me about it before to let me know that there’s a potential he could leave the country if he got the job he applied for just before he met me. But he also said it wouldn’t be likely to happen and if he was...

Anonymous

(36-45)

I hate my ex boyfriend but I still fantasize about having sex with him but I don’t want to have sex with anybody. What do I do?

I loved him so much and he basically ghosted me and got into another relationship. It broke my heart so bad. I was scarred emotionally to the point that I was afraid to be intimate again because I feared getting close to...

Anonymous

(25-29)

My friends with benefits is confusing me?

So it was my decision to be casual as he works away a lot out of the country and I didn’t want to get attached, he agreed to be casual too. However I noticed he would try and make me jealous by telling me he had girls...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Intimacy with a guy friend after your husband passed away?

What do you think about the situation when a girl you know for 7 years asks to have a log hug from a guy friend during grieving period as her husband just died and she feels so alone and is missing closeness. This guy...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Health & Fitness

I want my right nostril to stop getting buildup in it, how?

My left one doesn't really get this. The right on the inner part of the nostril, sometimes these lumps build up, and I have to really work to rip out snot that's dried to the skin there, and often hair attached to it....

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why do I feel like I’m trapped in this relationship when in reality, I’m not?

I have been on and off with my boyfriend for almost two years now because of his temper which often led to physical abuse. I’ve left and returned many times. It’s like I overlook the bad and think of the good and I feel...

Anonymous

(25-29)