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I started talking to this girl I really liked, and we seemed to hit it off. We both recently got out of long term relationships, and we meshed very quickly. She opened up to me very quickly and we seemed interested in dating.
Unfortunately she was 2 hours away for school and having finals so I couldn't get down there to see her and she was too busy to take that time too. BUT she was only a few weeks away from going on a month long break.
We set up for our first date, and I tried really hard to make it special. I changed my shift so I'd be opening instead of closing. I brought her some roses and we had plans to get dinner and see a light show.
But when I picked her up, she was dead silent. I gave her the roses and she didn't seem to care. We had to kill some time, so we started watching a movie at my place and she had barely said anything. Finally she said she was having a migraine and I turned off the movie, dimmed the lights and gave her some medicine and she tried to rest.
Very quickly she asked me to take her home. I did, and on our way home, she grabbed my hand and said she felt awful, and she did have a migraine, but also she thought she was ready to date again, and she was still having issues with her breakup and she said I was an incredible guy and she wanted to be with me but she couldn't at that moment.
She kept stroking my arm and she seemed very upset, and said she'd understand if I didn't want to see her again. I gave her a kiss on the cheek and said I understood. She gave me a big hug , and went to go back in her home. She came back and gave me another hug, and that was it.
She knew I changed my schedule and I drove 40 minutes to get her, 40 minutes to my place and 40 minutes back.
Did I handle this right? And did she play me?