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Search Results: guilt and shame
6 Movies Where There Is a Male Victim of Rape (Spoilers)
First of all, I don't want people to misinterpret this Take: I'm not advocating rape or any sex crime. They are abhorrent and cruel actions. Crime is a bad thing. Anal rape isn't the only way a man can be raped or...
Guys, How To Date When You Are Broke AF
Let's be real. Dating typically requires money. You need money to get ready, money for the movie tickets, for the club, for the dinner, for the coffee and ice cream, for gas, for the concert, for the bar, for the...
BeeNee
Editor Age: 43 The Social Justice Survival Guide
I've already done more then enough MyTakes covering race. I've done a MyTake covering body image. Now, for my final MyTake (at least for a while) I'm going to cover social justice warriors. And maybe just maybe you'll...
GoldMeddle
Editor Age: 30 Looking Into The Mind of a *Loner*
We live in an incredibly social age. Yes, we lack a consistency of interaction with the same people and relationships in general are deteriorating. However, never have loners had their strangeness to the norm been thrown...
pavlove
Editor Age: 34 The Birth of the Player: It Ain't Pretty
I promise that I used to be a nice person. Every time I was rejected by a girl, I still tried to be a good friend and I suppressed all the "ulterior" motives that I had. It is becoming clear that this was a mistake. Not...
ice_cat
Xper 4 Age: 32 My boyfriend dumped me and I can't tell if he's really done with me or just trying to punish me?
Wed morning my boyfriend broke up with me. I know I was wrong so I tried to apologize. I kept sending pathetic text expressing my guilt, apologies and love for him but I got no response. I called him and he sent me to vm....
Megabeauty
Xper 6 Age: 43 I'm ashamed of my sexuality?
I’m not going to go into detail here. But I will say although my preferences harm nobody, they still seem very strange to me, and would probably seem strange to everybody else too. As a result, I see myself as perverted...
Anonymous
(30-35) Is it wrong that I really despise my father as a person?
I don't look at him as much as a man at all. I know I sound like an asshole because he raised and provided for me but he is a complete spaz. He never taught me how to be a real man.. I taught myself. I grew up a pussy...
Anonymous
(30-35) Why would a guy do this?
Please dont judge me because I was angry! the second my boyfriend broke up with me, he for some reason logged back onto the matrimonial site ( we are muslim so we dont really call it dating site) a couple of months down...
Anonymous
(36-45) How do I make a girl who's insecure understand she's beautiful?
My girl is beautiful. She's absolutely stunning. She is the easiest 10 I have ever given anyone in my life. Everyone around me see's how beautiful she is. Everyone but her. Every time I tell her she's beautiful or...
HarmlesaHuman
Xper 4 Age: 27 Goodbye, My Dear Friend
I'm sorry I am not happy, and upbeat. I just cannot put on that persona anymore. A tragedy has struck me, and has affected me in ways I never knew were possible. My friend is gone, and just those words are enough to make...
Should stores guilt people into donating to specific charities?
Buying my groceries at Costco today, I was asked by the cashier if I wanted to donate to our local children's hospital. Having already donated to another charity the day before, I told her "no". She gave me somewhat of a...
MandyRuth
Editor Age: 40 
What to do if I was caught shoplifting?
I was at my local FYE and I decided I would (try to) steal a wallet. (I got caught) [I don't really need any guilt trips because I was already shamed and I understand what I did was wrong.] What they told me was...
Anonymous
(30-35) What is the most beneficial emotion? How about the most destructive?
As human beings and the social creatures we are, we get able to discover and experience a lot of emotions throughout our lifes. I confess, I love emotions. I love to feel them. Not all of them make us feel good, though....
overthinkingmind
Explorer Age: 30 What exactly are white people supposed to do?
I've read more than once, today alone, that white people can't discuss slavery and such. I'm not really sure what white people those are, but I know plenty that have no problem having that discussion. My question is, to...
Anonymous
(30-35) Fit Bottomed Girls on Why Diets Are Useless, And How To Love the Burn
It has become a major focus in the United States because frankly, it has to be. In a critically unhealthy world, people like the Fit Bottomed Girls are striving to help those who aspire to #healthandfitness, who are...
Fathoms77
Editor Age: 47 HELLLLLLLLLPPPPPP?
Last semester a guy and I used to flirt and be touchy & sexual with each other and over spring break we sexted and last month I went to his house to have sex we eventually didn't end up having sex (long story) the next...
Anonymous
(25-29) Guys, What's your honest thoughts on this situation?
We texted. For months on end. He wouldn't talk to me on the phone because he said I was out of his league and he was too nervous (there was one night, he was 9 shots down, he called while I was out with friends at a loud...
Anonymous
(45 Plus) Depression problem, what should I do?
First of all I want to say that this is the first time I ever talk about my issue, I honestly had enough and just want to get it out of my chest. I study abroad, and it's been 5 years since I got here, first year it was...
Anonymous
(30-35) There's Nothing Wrong With Refusing Interracial Dating
"Racist!" "Bigot!" "Sexual Racism!" It's something you hear a lot online when the topic of interracial dating comes up. Invariable, some groups will try to "shame" others into dating outside their race. Which is both...
Anonymous
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