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We met by him adding me on Facebook - we had friends in common that implied a horse rinding background. We got talking, and we just got on really well, and he was open and honest with me and asked me out on a first date.

We met up, we talked about everything from his previous relationships and marriage, to his addictions and time in prison. He talked about his career and his friends, about future plans over the next few years and joking about popping the question. I teased him by slightly pulling down my top so he could see my cleavage and his eyes widened and locked focus on them and he stood up to get a coffee and said "someone's pleased to meet you" and pointed to the outline in his jeans lol. We were at the pub for about 5 and a half/6 hours, and then he came back to mine. Accidentally met my dad and brother (thought they would be in bed!) and he stayed over at mine. He said "if it's okay, I don't want to do anything. I want to go slow and get it right, I have a history of rushing into things". (The insecure crazy female in me wonders if this was a nice way to say eww) We didn't kiss or have sex, we just cuddled together. We were up until about 3am.
Come morning, we watched TV in bed together for a few hours and I took him home about lunchtime. We both have health conditions and he needed to get home to take medicine and he said he was going to get some sleep and message me later. He hugged me and said he had a good time and we were very mature and proud of us. I gave him a kiss on the lips goodbye. And I left him be to get some rest.

I messaged him this morning because he left his vape liquid here and did he want me to bring it over. He said no thanks, I feel better how are you? And it's back to silence.

Do any of you have and advice on how to act and any inklings on how he feels? We were both full of excitement and couldn't stop talking to each other before we met; he was abused by his past couple of relationships so I don't wanna be a crazy woman!

I have been in a long distance relationship for about 1 year now. I’ve traveled to my boyfriends country (my parents hometown) 2 times to see each other. Nothing sexual ever happened when I went over, did talk about marriage (Irrelevant). Anyways, since the beginning I explained to him it is difficult for me to do long distance and it’s not for me. Recently, I have been telling him I can’t do long distance anymore and I have been trying to break it off with him but he does not want to leave me and he sees everything in me etc.. I just feel guilty and not sure what to do. I don’t wanna lead him on anymore so I’m slowly trying to cut him off.. Any advice? Ever been in a long distance relationship?

Before I met my online boyfriend. I would post questions or my rants about how my mom would yell at me and my roommate brother not wanting to be around me.

I have no friends and living in the middle of nowhere in a small town. There’s not much options of activities and therapy. So my routine would be sleeping and eating to get through the day. Sometimes chores with my brother getting annoyed with me asking for help. Then my mom yelling and dumping her problems on me about her marriage, life and frustrations.

This was my life before I met my boyfriend.

Now recently, my boyfriend has been busy with his life. To the point he has put his phone 📱 on silent. That I cannot reach him anymore. This was a wake up call that I really need professional help in my life.

As my boyfriend called me back, I explained that we should end our relationship. Because I feel him becoming more and more distant. I also told him it’s probably my fault and I’m suffocating him. Cause of my life/family drama. Which is overwhelming for him.

That he made a comment: “listen, I know you have been dealing with this drama from your family for 30 years. But I cannot give you my advice or opinion. Because it’s your family and you love them. I can only listen.”