On Nov 13th my boyfriend of 2 years broke up with me and I didn't see it coming. While he cried during the break up he said the reason was we were at two places in life for marriage and kids (he's 31 and I'm 35) and he didn't want to waste my time. Anyway, we have now gone a month without talking and he, nor anyone in his family have reached out about getting his stuff. My hall closet is full of his stuff; just in his clothes I have: 32 shirts, 4 hats, 3 pairs of sweats, 2 pairs of jeans, 4 hoodies, 14 pairs of underwear, a pair of shoes and 2 pairs of shorts. I also have 2 x boxes, a guitar, a pillow, 3 shaker bottles etc.
I spoke with his sister who he lives with 10 days ago and she offered to do the exchange, his stuff for mine. I said if he wants to do it have him text me, if he wants her to do it she can text me and we can figure it out - she never got back to me. This isn't normal for me in a break up. Usually an ex and I are exchanging within a few days to two weeks. I can't imagine he would want to let all this stuff go.
Any advice/ insight?
I spoke with his sister who he lives with 10 days ago and she offered to do the exchange, his stuff for mine. I said if he wants to do it have him text me, if he wants her to do it she can text me and we can figure it out - she never got back to me. This isn't normal for me in a break up. Usually an ex and I are exchanging within a few days to two weeks. I can't imagine he would want to let all this stuff go.
Any advice/ insight?
Updates
+1 y
To be fair, I haven't text him either so we both haven't talked since the break up
Updates
+1 y
So we finally talked last night and now he wants to wait two more weeks until AFTER Christmas to do the exchange. Really? He can't take an hour out of his day when we live 10 minutes apart to do it? He said he has the week off after Christmas so he'd be more flexible but I'm still working so he would come over at the same time anyway
