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These are the opinions of several anthropologist and sociologist on human behavior.

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Christopher Ryan, Ph. D. and author of Sex at Dawn: How we Mate, Why we Stray, and What it Means for Modern Relationships adamantly tells Hopes & Fears that no, humans did not evolve to be a sexually monogamous species, which is evidenced by the fact that we rarely only have one sexual partner for our entire life. He says that having one partner at a time isn't monogamy, it actually fits into the category of serial polygyny.

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Elisabeth Sheff, Ph. D. and author of The Polyamorists Next Door: Inside Multiple-Partner Relationships and Families says that because monogamy takes so many social structures to exist, it can't really be naturally occurring and inherent, like blinking, breathing, or wanting to speak to our children. She says "it seems more natural for humans to want a personal harem, so each of us get to enjoy sexual variety, but insist on sexual exclusivity for our lovers, so we don't have to deal with jealousy."

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David P. Brash, a professor at the University of Washington and author of several books on the topics of sex, evolution, and infidelity, says that we aren't naturally inclined towards monogamy and that monogamy itself is a recent societal creation. Men and women are both inclined to seek multiple sexual partners for a variety of biological reasons.

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Dossie Easton, a psychotherapist and relationship counselor, told Hopes & Fears the she believes a lot of institutions profit by controlling the population towards monogamy by instilling lots of guilt and shame. At the end of the day, though, Easton says people are going to do what they want. She says, "I know from experience that many people learn to create the relationship and sexual lifestyles that they desire, and find a way to fit themselves into the culture while they're at it."

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I met him two weeks ago through a mutual friend. We didn't talk much a few words here and there that day and when our group seperated he was the only one not hugging me goodbye.
When I came home he added me on facebook so I jokingly texted what an honor for him to add me :) he replied and we are talking ever since that day, everyday. Lately after one coffee he started to ask me to come over to his place for a movie, but im not ready to do it, if that is what he has in mind.
If I do not message him, he texts me. But he never asks about my day, rather we talk about topics we left on or about other stuff. I won't deny that there is no sexual tension. There is. And we naturally flirt with eachother, it just spontaneously happens.
Im confused if he is toying with me or is he genuinely interested in me. We are gonna go on another coffee tomorrow. But I do not wish to invest my feelings and time just to be a booty call.
Any advice?