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So my clients father is always unprofessional asking personal questions such as, " oh do you still talk to this worker or that worker" or " remember you had a disagreement with this person. yeah they were mad lol". Just annoying he has no friends and neither does his wife they are weirdos. So I told him the other week "your child's old special Olympics teacher has been messaging me. She really wants to visit your daughter. I think we should really try and get her to visit because she was there for your daughter when other staff members said your daughter was a vegetable and ugly. They also would say you looked like fat albert and would say " hey hey hey I feel the earth shake when he walks through". But the teacher said she looked beyond your child's appearance and decided to get to know her. After that he was like ," well I knew people talked about her they did it at my church too saying we shouldn't have another child. But u know what watch their kids are gonna be sick too!" I told him, " no actually their kids are fine." Later on he said ," whatever you do please don't tell my wife because she will be hurt. Me well I, I can take it. After that he has not bugged me eversince and the conversation has remained appropriate and professional. Just how I want it. I go to work to work and not deal with his unprofessionalism.

But why doesn't he want me to tell his wife anything? Do you think it's bad that I'm holding this secret from her? Should I tell her or should I use it as blackmail leverage for if he gets on my nerve again I tell her?

In a world where people gossip, I wouldn’t answer just any question in real life, not even my partner. I like to be a closed book and let people assume the rest. I wouldn’t answer questions like
Questions about politics...
“What are your political views?”
“What are your views on interracial relationships?”
”How do you feel about gender”
I don’t want to be making enemies within this political divided country and lowering my chances of finding the right guy... Or people to think I’m a liberal, racist, trashy or etc. based on my answer.

Questions about who I would or wouldn’t date...
“Would you date outside your race?” or “would you date ____ people?” or “what is your favorite hair/eye/skin color on a significant other”
Even if the person, who has a trait I don’t like, isn’t into me, it could make them feel bad about themselves if I answer these kind of questions. For example, if my partner has brown hair, I wouldn’t want him to feel bad knowing that strawberry blond hai is my favorite hair color on a man.

Questions about my family
“What are your parents like as a couple?” It’s no ones business about my family’s whereabouts and who they are.

Questions about my health
Again, no one’s business

Questions about my sexuality
Again it’s no one’s business. I’m a virgin and I keep that a secret in real life because it’s embarrassing for someone my age to be a virgin. I don’t like virgin hunters that much either. I don’t want people to be confused about my sexuality either just because they know I liked a masculine girl in high school. Or to think that I am more likely to cheat on my partner just because I crave sex a lot.

There are a few questions though, I wouldn’t answer on here or in real life either.