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Men: Would you rather be a 5'11"/180 cm, fit, athletic-bodied, all-natural 34DD white woman in her 20s who makes seven figures as a model or actress or other professional (including sex work)?

Or would you rather stay a man, but you're short (under six feet), overweight, very unhealthy, ugly, have a small penis, have some kind of non-debilitating medical condition (diabetes, low blood sugar, etc.), and can barely pay the bills every month or homeless, but you're still a man.

Growing up, I've always wanted to be super intelligent, accomplished, tall, athletic, and good looking. I am none of those things. Barely could even count as "smart." One could blame it on the fact that I had an abusive mother, grew up dirt poor and "barely not homeless," and came from a family of ugly overweight freaks. But I don't buy it as an excuse. I have to own up to my own failures in life. Do you think your background plays a huge part in how successful of a person you'll end up becoming, or does it not matter?

I am 27 and never had a real girlfriend. I didn't lose my virginity until I was 20 to a 16 year old girl (also a virgin), but she largely let me have sex with her out of pity I feel. She didn't want anything to do with me after that weekend. I haven't touched a woman since.

I had an online thing with this one girl for several months, and she rejected me upon meeting me in person. I was also rejected recently by this other girl who was 17 after talking for a solid month online.

Women don't notice me at all. I am short at 5'6". Yes, I am overweight, but even if I lost weight, I still have to deal with being really short.

Really, I want a woman without a romantic past where we can be each other's first loves. Meaning, she has never had a first love or a boyfriend before. I like younger women, so maybe I still have a chance.