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If it’s too long to read for you, then start reading from “I don’t think it’s a good option.” . It’s the bottom line more or less.

Well anyway, actually it’s not a college, since I couldn’t find a proper translation…but it’s equivalent with what college is in America. Main ages there are from 18 to 23. I’m almost 25, so I guess my age is perfect for them.

Let’s get to the point. It’s spring now, which means weather is better and it’s a good time to hit on a girl. This “college” I’m talking about, is about 25 minutes from my home on foot, which means I don’t live nearby, to know the area very well.

Every time I happen to pass from there though, I notice there’s a good amount of nice looking girls who come and go in this building during morning and noon. Also there are many café-bars around that area.

I need to form a strategy to hit on one of those chicks there successfully (I don’t have any particular chick on my mind, since there are many good-looking.), yet without making everyone aware about my intentions. There are tons of students there, and if they realize what I’m doing then everyone would make fun of me.

There are also a bus stop a few minutes away on the left from this building. And there is also a park a few minutes away on the right. The café-bars are in front.

I’m fed up with all those failures lately. I don’t mind if I get rejected. Actually it would be good if I get rejected since it would give me a kick to go on, and it might build up my confidence more. What bothers me is, every time I go out I always say to myself “If you see a good looking chick, HIT ON HER, and don’t mind what’s going to happen”.

But I’m always “I will”, “I will” and “I will”. When it comes to actions I do nothing. I’m just words. So what I need is to proceed to ACTIONS and not remain in words only.

Also don’t forget to vote where should I hang around?