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I’m 22 and this guy is 19. I had the chance to meet him at the gym. I look younger and people always mistake me for a teen while he’s really mature and muscular, and he look more like a guy in his mid 20’s. so we started to flirt by some glares, but he made the first step by asking me if I wanted to do some workouts with him. We started to know each other, we both had a direct chemistry and we are both fervent Christians! But A week after knowing him I was going to have a heart attack when he told that he was born in 2000, and that he closed his 19’s the last week. It was like a break down for me. He was also surprised when I told him my age, but more because I look younger. He he’s very handsome, athletic, mature, intelligent and funny, and a good Christian, but I feel so bad! I know they if the gender were reversed it wouldn’t be a matter, or if he was at least 1 year younger. He invited me to have a dinner with me, and told me that he wanted to know me more, because he wasn’t able to stop looking at me, since we first meet. All my friends, ( even my mom) says that I would be crazy to reject such a good guy because of his age, and I know deep inside that it would be a mess, but I’m also affraid of what the others would think about me! I am working in a company and he’s a student, is it really seen as weird?

There's this guy I know from work. We never met outside of work but we haven't known each other that long.
He always spends breaks with me. He randomly stands next to me/my desk, while talking to other colleagues and he tells me about his secrets, aspirations, fears, his family, his childhood... And we often talk about our families. He even flat out asked me, if I'm taken, even though he should've known. It felt like him trying to be absolutely sure.
He makes sexual jokes but rarely.
He stands very close to me, usually a lot closer than with other people.
Other people have started teasing him about liking me. He usually blushes and doesn't really say anything. He just tries to change subjects.
Sometimes however he points out things like not wanting an older girlfriend (I'm 6 years older) or that he never had a real long term relationship. That's confusing to me.
Does he have a crush? Does he want to be friends?