The bad part about being an "attractive" female

[Anonymous]

by the way I feel kinda rude for calling myself attractive it's other peoples opinions not mine. But I'm happy with the way I look.

(This is NOT me in the pic)

1. Jealosy

I have to deal with a lot of drama cause girls get jealous. A lot of girls will talk shit about me or over all have a bad attitude towards me, because their crush/their partner is hitting one me which I don't like.

2. Assualt

I don't know if this is because of my appereance but I've been sexually assaulted many times from both men and women. Strangers who have walked up to me and grabbed me om my ass and men and women (friends) and others who have touched me very inappropiate.

I've also had pedophilia moments when an old guy 50 year old wanted me to do sexual stuff and film it (I didn't tho). But many stuff has happend.

3. Friends boyfriend

A lot of times I reslized my friends partners is giving me signs that they like me. And I don't like that. I had a friend but her boyfriend is giving me signs and she hates me now.

4. Can't take no

Some guys I have said no to can't take a no. For example I have this "stalker" who have liked me for 3-4 years now who runs after me every time he sees me and goes on to me it's very annoying.

5. Staring

The akwardness when it comes to people staring is huge. I don't like it when people keep staring. Esspecially not when you give them eyecontact and I look away but then they just keep staring.

6. When they try to show off. And ofcorse most stuff is fine but sometimes it gets really embarrassing and cringy. There is this (another) girl in school who has a boyfriend and he is always trying to show his fight skills and smirks at me and flirt in different ways to me infront of his girlfriend. And she has an attitude towards me too. And there is this girl (who is lesbian 99% sure). She keeps dancing so cringy infront of me and smirks like WHY??.😭😅 and another girl tried to kiss me many times even though I said NO.

7. People seeing you for your apperance and not who I am on the inside. A lot of guys are just out for my body. And I'm not in to that.

So these are some of the bad parts for being an "attractive female". Not everything is great with it trust me.

[Anonymous]

I am apparently a pretty attractive guy, or so I've been told, and the attention I have always received from girls seems to confirm that. I myself have faced many of the things you listed here. For example, I have been sexually assaulted by girls countless times. I've had my crotch grabbed many times, I've had girls try to unzip my pants, I've had my ass grabbed or slapped so many times I can't keep track, I've been forcefully kissed, I've had girls walk up when I was sitting and rub their boobs in my face, I I've had my clothes removed without my consent while drunk. I could go on and on. It's a problem.

Can we be honest here? The particular kinds of problems attractive people face are pretty insignificant compared to what ugly people face. There are shitty people in this world who do shitty things, and at the end of the day I would much rather face the shitty things that people do to me because I happen to be relatively good looking that face the shitty things ugly people have to deal with all the time.

So yeah, let's keep a little perspective here.

[myTake Owner]

Yes I agree I would rather be pretty too. But I want People to know it's not all perfect

[MaverickAngel]

I often wonder if being moderately attractive (as opposed to ugly or head turning) isn't better. When I went from ugly duckling to attractive.. I got attention I could DEFINITELY have done without..

[myTake Owner]

@MaverickAngel yup I used to be ugly too. Then puberty came and changed everything. So I know what you mean

[Lonewolf1994]

Yes at least women are attracted to you.

[Armourdillo]

Ah yes, so us ugly people should pity you attractive people while being fucking ugly.

[Lonewolf1994]

@RolandCuthbert I will never have to think about or worry about that, I'm ugly and undesirable to women.

[Lonewolf1994]

@RolandCuthbert true but that doesn't change the fact that looks matter. I'm never going to be attractive to women

[Lonewolf1994]

@RolandCuthbert That's one example plus he is a celebrity so he has social status

[Pejtu]

@Lonewolf1994 true girls that are gold diggers dont care how u look , they will get ur money and cheat with u with chad :P

thats the truth

[Lonewolf1994]

@RolandCuthbert No, I'm just stubborn and convinced that no woman could find me attractive

[myTake Owner]

@RolandCuthbert I'm not here to pity party and I Always go for the I side I have only been with one guy and he was broke. And I had options with rich guys and I Said no

[myTake Owner]

@RolandCuthbert oh okay sorry I meant it for him not you.
Did you post as your own opinion or as a comment here?

[myTake Owner]

@RolandCuthbert no it doesn't matter how the person looks if someone touch me without me agreeing to it it is assualt that's a fact you can check the dictionary.

And like I Said I go for the inside there are more women like me out there. But if your first move when you meet me is to grab my boobs then no I don't wanna be near you.

Its not fake I am telling the truth what happend. Trust me "attractive" guys have assaulted me too and it's not okay. And I won't be attracted to someone like that.

And all you gotta do is say hi and we'll go from there.

[myTake Owner]

@RolandCuthbert you just sent it unless you mean what I Said then we are in the same page

[Opinion Owner]

@RolandCuthbert

"guys around here complain about being sexually assaulted, grabbed and felt up by women all the time"

What kind of asshole says this to anyone who has been sexually assaults?

[Dude_1820]

Very well put!

I think there are some attractive females that are just so shallow, they're ok with it. Or they crave the attention and will take it however they can get if. Most of the time it's because of something that has happened to them traumatically in their child hood.

[myTake Owner]

Thanks! I've been through a lot too in my life byt I don't act like that, but sadly some do.

[myTake Owner]

*but

[Dude_1820]

Just keep your head up high and roll with the punches and you'll make it! Feel free to message me if you need to talk :)

[myTake Owner]

Yeah thankyou!😊

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't say I'm very attractive but I've had insecure girls who are probably not as attractive as me, attack and bully me for no reason whatsoever. It felt like she was jealous of me and took out her own issues on me, even though I did nothing to her! I find it hard to make female friends because they all seem to turn toxic.
I don't think assault depends on attractiveness; if someone is that way inclined, they will do it anyway, with whoever because they like having power over people. Anyone can be assaulted, whether they're subjectively beautiful or not.
There are definitely downsides to being attractive, despite what some people like to think.

[myTake Owner]

Yes! I wasent sure about the assualt part so you could be right. And I have a very hard time getting female friends all my friends are guys. They are way more chill.

[sonnysunshine]

Do unattractive girls bully good looking boys (who give them no attention?)

[myTake Owner]

@sonnysunshine problaby

[foodtv]

Don't feel rude, Express that confidence.

I know what you mean with those points and it can be difficult to deal with. No it's not growing up in the ghetto or something like that, this is a different kind of hardship. Not everyone thinks about the emotional toll it can have on someone and how we're all affected differently by different things.

[myTake Owner]

Thankyou!
And yes my life isn't perfect. I have been through a lot of other stuff too and like you said we all have a story to tell. Everyone has been through something:)

[Pejtu]

I am good looking intimidating tall guy im 6'2 blue eyes shaved head , 198 pounds , well build , few days short beard also and i catch a lot of girls flirting with me even tho i have a girlfriend

My married friend ( girl ) was flirting with me real hard years ago and she does it till tooday, those were some 100% signs of give me that dick
Girls touched my chest grabbed my forearms in clubs or bars without even asking , one took my hand on put on her tits even
My girlfriend is furious sometimes ( yes we are edgaged im 24 she is 21 ) , not on me but on the other girls !!! that do that shit

Even her mother friends that are like in their late 30 or early 40's tend to flirt with me a lot even tho they are married with kids , that it sick

My girlfriend said many times im a real stud / catch because only not the way i look but the person im also

Other things that are bad - guys that are worse looking then you will try to make ur life suffering OR they will love you in a platonic way i mean

Because they think - hot guy deamn probably tons of hot chicks around him well i gotta hang out with this guy chicks will come up to him without even talking to them

Another one is workplace in the place where i work there is a lot of girls and i mean a lot - thats shopping center

And holy shit im tired of all these customer girls leaving her phone number behind the bill ( text me later i would loveto have some funn with you )

Or the girls im working with not every of them does that but well you know , a lot of new girls in workplace flirt with me not every girl but like 30,40% of them - thats a lot

I said many times to one girl she is paranoid over me - i got a girlfriend no , she always says im married come on i wanna fuck you so bad and she is touching my chest on rubs my D - but only 1 girl says it that directly

And this one girl is doing that since 2 months and it really is hard to focus on anything- the constant tease from her etc - sticking out her ass , putting her tongue inside the cheek - that really is hard

I know in the back of my head i can't im edgaged - it really is hard to work with girl that is obsessed sexually about you and u can't fuck her

But those are only few things i could go on and on

[myTake Owner]

Yeah I feel you

[Lonewolf1994]

You're lucky man

[BluesheepOwl]

Everything 100% true. I had this guy (I'm pretty sure at this point he realized to leave me alone but I wouldn't be surprised if he still likes me) who has had a crush on me for over 5 years. He's in his early thirties and liked me since I was 16... which is disgusting to think about. He works at my local grocery store. And every single time I went there to shop and he was there working, he would always try to hit on me. And I've lost count on the number of times I literally ignored him and walked away or told him directly I wasn't interested. So creepy! I complained to the manager numerous times and he did nothing. I just stopped shopping there over time. But a few weeks ago i went there with my friend and I went to get some Starbucks. I saw him waiting in the line there and I literally did a u-turn looking him in the eye and I said, "Never mind the desperate weirdo is there. Hurry let's leave." It just blurted it out. Later I saw him and he looked like he was about to cry, he looked so sad. I hate that I said something rude but at the same time he deserved it. Since I have been shopping there he has not bothered me since. You forgot to mention parties. Whenever I go to a party 90% of the dudes there try to get with me. I had this one guy follow me around at this party. And I had all the guys there talk to me and flirt with me. I had a group of guys trying to get my attention. A lot of them said to me that they can tell I am not a slut and they respected that which was a really weird compliment.

[myTake Owner]

Oh no! I hope you are okay now! That's really disturbing.
And yes I don't go to parties but when I have gone they always hit on me too.

[Anonymous]

I had a perverse attractiveness problem. I looked androgynous but my sexuality was hetero and not ambiguous. In middle school and high school, I was, uhhh, pretty and looked a little like this. I also sang in a garage band.

Girls in my age group knew me and I appealed to some of them, while others wanted jocks or more grungy, visceral guys. But I was approached by older girls (like 1 or 2 grades above), which resulted in some... fond memories. The problem was when I was out and about in college, particularly staying/surfing at the beach, etc. I started being approached by gay guys and older men, and some became particularly direct. Since my "look" was what attracted them, I had to change it... at first down to this...

... and later even shorter.
So I had a little taste of what being an attractive girl what might be like. My recommendation? If you naturally look attractive (I did), don't dress it up. Play it down so you don't distract people you don't want to. Simple clothes, limited/no makeup. Avoid vanity, which I had allowed myself in high school. More subtle guys will see your attractiveness anyway.

[myTake Owner]

Thanks for your tips!

[tearout]

1. yes a study was shown that when an attractive female enters a group of women, they will compare themselves with her and if she is considered more attractive they will HATE HER

2. yup that is expected go online and look,,,,,, you women are whores and men know this you like being groped and touched and abused so men will do it to any women

3. pump and dump

4. he could just rape you If he wanted
but you are right especially when young most men can't take rejection
I couldn't when young eventually you get over it

5. they are going to look you have to accept it even if you were average they would look

6. I have had guys try to kiss me ughhh it was terrible
I like women only I don't think I have girls trying to impress me
but I have had girls argue over me lol I'll never forget lol

7. sorry hun MGTOW is out
so guess what we want your body not who you are,, there is no point in dating you no matter how hot you are, and that's just the honest truth I would never date you

but I will fuck that ass

[myTake Owner]

Your not getting close to my body you can go and fuck yourself. Cause I deserve better than that. And just because someone wants to touch someone doesn't make it okay.

But... keep being honest

[tearout]

I will keep being honest
I do not think you understand were the world is heading

you gotta read the end of the bible (IT WILL PLAY OUT)
the shit gets horrible and some of the stuff is already here
but you wouldn't know that
or believe me
even IF I SHOWED YOU

cause like GOD said

Hosea 4:6
my children are destroyed for lack of knowledge BECAUSE they have rejected knowledge

I know what you women are
you admit it online
I can see it in your actions and words I'm not dumb
I know the type of depraved whores you are
most of you are prostitutes and that's easy to prove


and hun I'm a man I CAN DO WHATEVER I WANT TO YOU
what ever freedom you have is what we men GIVE YOU
never forget that

go to the middle east and speak for women freedom lol good luck with that
www.theguardian.com/.../they-see-no-shame-honour-killing-video-shows-plight-of-syrian-women

you are so privileged
you have no idea
you women need to be put back on a leash
because you are stupid on purpose

[myTake Owner]

I'm from Sweden and I have A not of privliges. So you can suck ya mamas titties cause clearly you haven't grown up. And too bad girls have used you but many women deserve way more respect then you ever will.

Talk like that in Sweden and You'll get shot to death

[tearout]

YES YOU DO

that is one of the most feminized places on earth
everything there is in favor of the women

STOP LYING TO ME
women have the advantage

men are seen as out cast
they are tossed to the side like garbage
so fuck you


men have a 9x times higher rate of killing themselves
wanna know why
CAUSE THE WORLD HATES MEN

even when we build society
this is why im MGTOW

instead of taking accountability for your actions you blame
anything but yourselves
and purposely try to hurt others

fuck you
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jC3ty9zwwPA

[myTake Owner]

Yes and I don't identify myself as a feminist or MGTOW because I actually want EQUALITY! I know more men kill themself, I'm pro life and I would never be a manhater. I also wanna wait for marrige to have sex and I take school very serious I have B and A's. The world is a fucked up place but try to ignore the idiots and be a bit more selfish. Live for yourself

[tearout]

I DON'T WANT EQUALITY

were does it say in the bible WE SHOULD HAVE EQUALITY
I am better then you
I am bigger stronger faster and smarter

and you should drop out of school
IT'S A LIE
the earth is flat with a dome
GOD is above the dome your life is a lie
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IAcp3BFBYw4

and life is not about me or you
IT'S NOT ABOUT ANY OF US

it's about Christ above the dome
and If you think GOD does not exist good luck

cause the dome screams his name

[myTake Owner]

I do beleive in God and I am definatly smarter than you.

[tearout]

prove the core of the earth exist

[myTake Owner]

You wouldn't understand

[tearout]

exactly avoid the question

PROVE THE CORE OF THE EARTH EXIST

good luck :)

[myTake Owner]

Donr be än asshole

[myTake Owner]

*don't
*an

[tearout]

IM NOT

im asking you to answer the question
prove what you believe cause I can prove what i believe

[myTake Owner]

I Believe in God and Jesus because I do I don't need to prove it to a stranger

[tearout]

so do I

[myTake Owner]

Good for you

[Jjpayne]

I agree with you. Every upside has both sides of the coin. I won't deny that I envy female beauty. I do. When any girl sees the beauty that they have, it is a powerful thing. I think mainly what I would say here, is value the good parts of your beauty. It is good to vent and all the points you brought up of valid issues. But it is always better to see the glass as half full than half empty. Don't be mad at your beauty, enjoy it. You are a masterpiece that both your parents made. The goal here is to focus on how to maintain and overcome your issues while not allowing them to spoil what you have been gracefully given.

[myTake Owner]

Nice Said! I agree with you!

[Anonymous]

how do I say this
I have been there when girls have been all over me and liked me
but I certainly do not consider myself super attractive

I'm an average guy at best
cause if I was super attractive I would probably have more girls doing crazy shit
but I only have a few

but no
I do not sympathize
and cannot sympathize with you
CAUSE I REMEMBER WHEN I USE TO THINK I WAS THE SHIT
and had girls begging to suck my dick

I eventually stopped caring cause you women are retards lol
like literally you girls are desperate wish they would have told me this in middle school but it became obvious once i hit my looks peak

the only thing i care about are the moments girls have tried to force themselves on me

BUT EVERYTHING WAS EASY
EVERYTHING WAS GIVEN TO ME
all i did was dress the part and exist

it must be even easier as a women
with guys throwing money at you for attention lol
so shut up
you sound stupid
don't complain YOU GOT THE EASY LIFE

at least until the wall hits but by that time
you already had your fun
so do me a favor and shut up

[myTake Owner]

Pleace read again or move on. You missubderstood everything and I can see you are jealous. I wrote this so people like you can grow up and not be so jealous of me. I told my side of the story and Said not everything is Good about it I never Said I'm not thankful for the way I look.

Good luck in the future!

[Anonymous]

Sometimes the male attention I get is all sexual. Recently every guy I've interacted with (in whatever way) wants to get to know me in a sexual manner and some also admitted that they just think I would be fun to have sex with. It does take a knock on my self-esteem because I wonder why no one wants a relationship. Makes me feel like they just can't wait to get inside my underwear and use me for their sexual satisfaction.

In regards to females, normally all the women I interact with are very empowering. But sometimes, people do look at me and feel jealous or insecure by comparing themselves.

[myTake Owner]

Yeah it's not all Good

[Anonymous]

I agree. I have been approached in a store where a guy asked me if my family was there with me.

I don't mind the staring, as long as it remains just staring.

#7 is so true! For guys and girls, it is a rare thing to find someone who sees past my appearance to my inner self. I always wonder if the guy is talking to me because he actually wants to get to know me, or if he just wants sex. And when people compliment me on how I look, I just wish they would choose something that I had control over, like my behavior, or my intelligence.

[myTake Owner]

Exacly! Not everything is good about it

[Opinion Owner]

It is DEFINITELY not all rainbows and unicorns, that is for sure!

[MoonCradle]

Well I guees some people like to dream... they do not understand that our projection in this world does not really mean so much, I guees in a way being drawn towards someone attractive can be natural, people like what is beautiful maybe what they do not have, some hate it and are filled with jealousy of course. Usually happens to younger ones... you know... in the end I was similar to that too when I was younger well at least to some point and for a short time, I had many attractive girlfriends but after first two I realized that no matter how attractive the person is... you can be awfully unhappy and feel even emptier.. In the end it is about how she is... and how the minds resonate or not on the same plane of thoughs and feelings, otherwise it is dust in the wind, nothing. People often misjudge physical perfection with happiness, worst mistake ever.. but we all live and learn.

[myTake Owner]

Preech! Yess exacly!

[MoonCradle]

Well people get easily distracted and are superficial, they don't realize that there is only one soulmate out there.

[myTake Owner]

Yes! I agree

[weirdoweirdo]

That last part I can see being true. Guys just wanting that bod.

I used to be that way but I oofed at like 14 or 15 and I craved a good personality instead I came out of a relationship with someone who threatened to kill herself if I left her. I left her nontheless as I knew she wouldn't kill herself she just was overall toxic and shit so after that I fucking understood that unless a girl has a good personality I won't even fucking give a shit like I do with guys that are just toxic. That's also why i limit myself a lot these days and dont find a lot of girls an option as many of them have very shitty personalities that I just won't fucking deal with

[myTake Owner]

Good! Go for the personality, those last longer!

[Anonymous]

I get that it has its hard sides but it almost seem like your saying OH NO I am pretty and it sucks, girls who arn't pretty can't even catch a date where you can get anybody. People pay attention to you because your beautiful, but not as pretty girls get looked down/over ALL THE TIME. Just be grateful for what you have because you have no idea what girls would do for your beauty. This isn't to hate on you in anyway, I think it is good you know your beauty and that's great. But knowing your beauty and being thankful for your beauty are two different things.

[myTake Owner]

Yes and I know it's problaby harder to be ugly but I just want People to know it's not all perfect. I didn't write it to brag or to whine I wrote it so People can understand that it's not all perfect

[Glue-Sniffer]

Why would you put yourself in a situation where a 50 year old would even dare to ask you such a thing? Apparently the situation wasn't forced. So why would you let it get there?
I think you are trying to flirt and then it backfires on you. While in an ideal world one's behavior would never trigger any type of unwanted attention, this is definitely not true in everyday situations. A lot of it comes down to one's behavior. Why else would your so called friends and their partners hit on you left and right if you'd set firm boundaries and make it clear such behavior would not be tolerared by you and you'd cut them out of your life if they behaved in such a way?
I have been around attractive people, people who got hit on left and right, but getting sexually assaulted just because you are attractive doesn't sound right at all.

[myTake Owner]

It was forced. It was at a job. And I don't have control over what comes out of other Peoples mouthes. So it was 100% on him and forced I had to talk to his boss. You are wrong again I don't flirt. Unless not talking not smiling and not showing any Contact at all flirting then I'm not flirting. Ofcorse I can talk sometimes but it's never flirting. Maybe it doesn't happend to you but it happends to me and some other people. And also some people don't listen to People when they tell them to stop or whatever. And lastly I wasn't sure if I get assaulted cause I'm attractive so I'm really happy I wrote I wasent sure about that one.

[Glue-Sniffer]

Having a reputation of being stuck up is better than being overly friendly and ditzy.

[myTake Owner]

I don't Think I'm superior. I didn't say that. Maybe some Think that way not all

[bamesjond0069]

I am a good looking man and I agree with a lot of what you wrote. The thing I hate the most is many many girls I date want to hook up with me right away because I am good looking and sexy. But I refuse to date a girl that would hook up with any man right away. So its very insightful to see women I dates true nature. But on the other hand I could have been uglier and never known about women's behavior like this and probably be married already. Now that I know I can't simply just turn a blind eye to it.

[myTake Owner]

Yes it's not all good

[Lonewolf1994]

It's not all bad at least they find you attractive

[myTake Owner]

@Lonewolf1994 both sides

[Anonymous]

As an unattractive guy I can assure you your problems are minuscule compared to unattractive people. Its not say you don't have genuine concerns but if we're looking at the whole picture mere 20% of negatives are nothing compared to 80% of benefits.

Guys generally show anyway and girls don't like staring? Go to any club or look at instagram. My point being look at the positive and count your blessings. Would you rather be stared at a low more or rather be invisible? At some part I am 100% confident you love the attention even if it gets a bit much sometimes.

Most of what you've said I would call it bad rather maybe annoying. Its not right to be assaulted but sadly its not dependent on attractiveness. I'm sorry if I don't sympathize fully with your sentiments because believe me I'd happily swap places and be attractive and gladly take all the annoyances you mentioned above.

[myTake Owner]

I understand and Ut is problaby easier to be more attractive I just wanted to say the bad parts so People understand it's not all perfect

[Wolframium]

Yeah, even winning genetic lottery has drawbacks.
Your claim that you're beautiful…well, let's just say this is the internet. And faking this is super easy. Lack of your photo or this being posted anonymously is… Well, it smells.
And all those points…to be honest, beside the anecdotal evidence, I could came up with.
I don't call you a liar, I call myself a skeptic.

[myTake Owner]

You don't have to beleive anything I say. And I said because of other people say I am I wouldn't call myself attractive that's weird.

You can even write a mytake about how you think I'm a lair if you want but I'm not lying.

However me being Anonymous is because I don't want People to know who I am obviously cause I don't wanna call myself that or something like that. It's weird lol.
But being sceptic is Good! Esspecially on the Internet:)

[Wolframium]

I don't. Until some evidence are presented. Like…I can say that I've invented superluminal ways of transferring information (eeeeh…just fancy way of saying communication faster than light). And then not presenting any evidence. Who would believe me? I hope nobody.
Yeah, but…you say other people say this. Do you see the problem with it? I have here only your side of the story. No other source. I can say that other consider me attractive as well, but it's obviously BS, nobody would say that about my ugly ass.
I will not write myTake on that, don't worry. If I write one (or, to be exact, publish what I have now), then it will be only about me. Yeah…I'm one of those people…
I'm just pointing out the issues here. Anyone can claim it, article doesn't really reveal anything new (at least for me), so even my ugly ass can write it.
I'm not hating on you, by the way. If it's not obvious.

[myTake Owner]

Ofcorse I could lie but I don't. And maybe you are lying now too. I wrote what other people have said and how they act around me. Anyone can lie at and time life will get very difficult if you need proof every time someone say something.

And I wrote a mytake about the bad stuff about it so People know it's not all Good I didn't come here to just brag

[myTake Owner]

And pleace don't call yourself ugly. I'm sure you look better than you think you do

[Wolframium]

Theoretically, I lie about what? What would be my motive? Give me your theory.
But to be honest, some things in life, like this, are inconsequential. I can believe you you're some hot, under 18 girl, and…nothing will change for me. Or I might not believe you. And things are the same. Or I can remain with my position: that I don't know. And yet again: it doesn't matter.
In other things in life, people just tell the truth. No reason to lie.
Yeah, sure. I get it. It only reminds me…nobody writes about struggles of being ugly guy.

[Wolframium]

Eeeh…no. I don't. Because I have actual evidence. Basically, the things I asked you to give me. I know how successful I am on dating sites (being and not being there is the same for me: nothing happens), I am basically invisible to girls, so… Yeah. I have claim and I have supporting evidence. Actions speaks. Not words.

[myTake Owner]

I agree on that actions speaks and not words but dont be so hard on yourself. I'm sure you will find someone.

However I could lie and so could you but like you said what's the point?

[Wolframium]

I like to be in reality. It's not about being hard on myself, it's about the objective truth.
To be honest, I've lost any…will to find someone. Years ago.
Exactly.

[myTake Owner]

No dont say that. Dont give up you can always improve your look. And the inside is more important. But if you wanna look better I can help you but that's not the most important thing.

[Wolframium]

Ah, you're so naive. :-)
You can help me? I didn't know that we already invented devices for modifying human body, starting with initial modification to the entire thing and then DNA, so the body keeps the looks (and functions) as modified. This is awesome.

[Factshurt90]

I never needed this explained to me after being around attractive women. They are treated like Gods, or sexual objects/conquests. People don't listen when they talk and it's downright irritating the amount of attention they get.
What's crazy is being ugly is much the same, but in a bad way,😂 people flirt as a joke. Pursue us as a last resort. Assume were easy to get attention. Don't WANT to listen to us talk. Completely ignore us.
Opposite problems. Same hell.

[myTake Owner]

Lol yeah I guess there are bad sides on both sides😂

[Miristheiss]

Valid points. I'd say some of that has to do with who you hang out with and where you hang out. That ass grabbing sounds like something a clubber and bar visitor would complain of. Places with lots of drinking, staying out until 2-3.

We all have different sides of the coin. The girl who never gets asked out and never gets male attention probably wishes she had a bunch of guys really interested in her.

The girl who gets it all the time probably wishes she could get away from it at times.

Some of what you say is true and legit but once again I'd say a lot of it comes from the places you hang out and who you are hanging out with.

[myTake Owner]

I never go to bars and I never go out late. But yes I agree

[TonyBologna25]

So everyone is just so jealous of you, and they find you so attractive that they just can’t stop staring at you and complimenting you and trying to get your attention. Hun, I’m a Marine Corps vet and ghetto street cop, and I have to say your life is too rough for me to even fathom. You know when you think your life is tough, and then you hear someone else’s story and you’re like “Damn, my life isn’t so bad after all.” Well you just gave me that moment. I hope everything works out for you.

[myTake Owner]

That's not the bad part you should read the text. Complimenting me isn't awful lol. But thanks

[Glue-Sniffer]

Lol. The sarcasm 😂

[ANK360]

hey , if a guy just sees you and goes away fine , but yea if he does some thing wrong like unwanted touches or similar to that he is a stalker , seeing anyone is not a harm to be honest , and i feel good for being little more than average , and for not being attractive XD

[myTake Owner]

Good for you lol!

[ANK360]

Indeed

[Anonymous]

Let's be fair, try being an average or unattractive girl that never gets attention by anyone and has no option
At least you have much more option compared to them
Plus, studies have shown that good-looking always get treated better. It's the halo effect

[myTake Owner]

Can you show me those studies?

And yes I wouldn't change I'm happy I look the way I do but it's not all easy

[Opinion Owner]

www.google.com/.../the-surprising-power-beautiful-face%3famp

journals.plos.org/.../journal.pone.0148284

www.tutor2u.net/psychology/topics/halo-effect

Well, your life is a lot of better than most other people's lives anyway..

[myTake Owner]

Its definatly not I come from an abusive family and violent Town with a lot of dangerous stuff happening to me, my friends and my family. But I maybe have more options