What I Find Unattractive in Women.

[Anonymous]

1: Controlling

I do not like a woman who will tell me what to do, asking is better. lol

2: Liars and manipulators.

If someone tells a small lie, that leads to bigger lies. I do not need that.

3: Narcissist.

If a woman loves her self that much, there is no room for anything else. It would always be all about her.

4: Druggies and drunks.

Doing drugs and being an alcoholic just leads to bad things. She would lie and steal to just get the next fix or bottle.

5: Bitches

It is good to be a bitch when needed, but not be totally mean to everyone just because.

6: Players

Yes, this is toward women. Usually when people her "player" they think of men, but some women are also.

7: Fake

This goes along with lying and manipulating. A woman who acts different around certain people or in public.

8: Lazy

I do not like it when a woman will just sit all day on social media and expect the guy to do everything.

There might be other ones as well, but if you ask, I will tell. I am 100% honest.

[Lavinnykins]

I'm gonna come out and say this but my ex partner (who was male) would say I am all of these things when actually it was him who was all the above and noone else has ever described me like that. Hypocrisy is also unattractive.

[myTake Owner]

I so totally agree. I had an girlfriend that I confronted about her liking another guy and seeing him once in a while after they got off work. She told me there was nothing going on. Then, when I did one mess up, she went totally crazy and so I had to move. After 5 years of being with her, and even proposed, but she said she would never marry again. About 7 months after I was gone, she married the guy I confronted her about. So, I kind of know how you feel and am sorry he did that to you.

[Lavinnykins]

I'm sorry for you too but we have both done the right thing, so cheers to love in life! :)

[myTake Owner]

Cheers!

[ninjafemme]

Not out exactly but I can display some of these.

[myTake Owner]

What do you mean display some? lol.

[ninjafemme]

Like when I drink I dont know my limit, I can tell a white lie.

[myTake Owner]

Drinking is not a problem as long as it is not every day from 10 am till you pass out. lol. What kinds of white lies would you tell?

[ninjafemme]

I don't know lol it will just happen because I'm not always upfront about stuff in a relationship since the guys I date aren't either.

[myTake Owner]

Ok. that made me laugh. I noticed not many (almost none) are not 100% honest. But I've been lied to so many times that I am 100% honest. Finding out the lie hurts more than the truth. And I don't mind speaking my mind.

[myTake Owner]

Whoops. I mean almost no one is 100% honest.

[ninjafemme]

Yip...

[Anon-ymous1]

"Players" don't exist.

[Anonymous]

9. Feminist

[lilaqua]

Drugs are great. You do know most drug-users are not addicts right?

[myTake Owner]

It all depends on the drug. What kinds are you talking about?

[lilaqua]

don't like alcohol much, i'm a reverse addict in the sense the more I drink the less I desire to do it again. Weed is great. Ketamine is overrated. MDMA is fantastic. I reckon everyone should try it at least once, wish we could get it regulated. Wanting to try psychedelics like LSD, mushrooms or DMT but need to find a specific situation in which to be safe and maximise the situation.

[myTake Owner]

Good point, but I was talking like Cocain and meth. I guess you'd say hardcore drugs?

[lilaqua]

I mean, MDMA and Acid are considered hard drugs I dunno. Plus cocaine and especially meth aren't that common. Generally only if you do those drugs do you meet people that also do it. Plus most people who do coke are high-functioning and generally wealthy, the issue is they don't want to date you.

[myTake Owner]

Sounds like you have much experience in this. Have you witnessed people stealing from others to be able to get their drugs? That is more common than you think if you disagree. Meth causes that. I have known people who fucked up their lives for drugs. MDMA and acid are just psychedelics.

[lilaqua]

Yeah sure, but I don't hang around people who do meth or heroin. You choose your company. Plus I appear very straight laced and my family is very conventional anti-drug middle class so I'm not a target. Drug users around me generally take non-dependency forming stuff like MDMA, weed and psychedelics and are usually very intelligent, wealthy and well-adjusted. If anything I see more alcoholic behaviour, but people don't steal they generally get into bad economic situations. I see some cocaine usage, but it's sporadic because it's so diluted and expensive here, I'm also not close to those people. It's all about who you involve yourself with

[myTake Owner]

Exactly. You have a very good point.

[kitty71]

Agree on all of that. But I wonder why some guys like women like that.

[Porcelaine]

well maybe sometimes that woman still manages to treat him well. and if not, he just has low self esteem

[myTake Owner]

@Porcelaine Yeah. I had low self esteem when I was in the relationship where I was lied to, manipulated, and beaten. I rose out of it.

[myTake Owner]

@Porcelaine Oh. And I wasn't treated well. So I don't lie, used to do little white lies like most people but I don't like to do that anymore. I will just say the plain truth.

[Porcelaine]

well good for you for getting out of it

[myTake Owner]

@Porcelaine Thanks.

[NEW_YUKI]

agree

[Anonymous]

Same here