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We got into a bad argument a couple months ago after a weird period of us being really distant from each other, and he admitted to being so frustrated he thought about hitting up other girls, but never did. And since then he's been talking to this girl he knows 24/7. I'm not exaggerating when I say there is a notification that she messaged him every time I get a glimpse of his phone. But whenever I told him about how uncomfortable it made me he told me I was being selfish and paranoid and that she needed help because she's struggling with all these different problems and so on, and would continue texting her constantly. I had kept noticing the past two months or so, whenever he'd hand me his phone for whatever reason he'd always delete their DMs before handing it to me. And last night I had finally had enough of that and called him out. I was more mad that he thought I was actually stupid enough not to notice him do that so often then I was about him talking to her. And he kept listing excuse after excuse and kept saying he wasn't lying since they weren't doing anything and I have no reason to be mad and blah blah blah. But he is STILL talking to this chick non stop. And it really bothers me that he uses him knowing her from school (for less of a time than I knew him) as an excuse and will completely ignore my discomfort. I understand he's gonna have female friends and talk to them, I have male friends. But I don't understand why I'm in the wrong for being uncomfortable with him repeatedly crossing the boundaries of my comfort. He claims I'm violating his free will but I'm not asking him to drop communication entirely. I just want him to be mindful of how I feel and take that into consideration before going out of his way to start a conversation every day.

The straightforward “fuckboy” tells you right away he is not interested in having a relationship but he wants to be friends with benefits. Sometimes he ask you out on dates, sometimes he comes over for sex. He even enjoys talking on the phone with you for hours (nothing about sex either). He is a good looking guy. High possibility that he is seeing other women.

The so called nice guy:
”good morning beautiful” text messages
Buy you gifts
takes you out on dates all the time even after sex
swears he is seeing no one else
when you ask him if you guys are in a relationship, he says yes.
When you ask to meet his family, he gives excuses (This is after years of being together)
Emotionally unavailable
tells you he does not love you but maybe he will someday (This is after years of being together)

Do not say neither. If you HAD to choose. Even if it’s gonna be “I see myself with this one but just for a fling” guys feel free to analyze too lol