This girl I just started dating is a strong, vivacious woman.
So it came as a surprise yesterday when this tough as nails feminist woman was sending me text messages: "I miss you baby", "I don't feel well baby", "Come cuddle with me. I don't feel well. Just for a little bit." The final straw that was tough to take was: "Baby, I miss you. Did you know I just bought some lingerie?"
Most beta male guys who have a mindset that they can't ever get sex would be at their ladies beck and call within minutes. Even in the midst of work or school or a busy day they would re arrange their schedules to check in on their girl when she begs them. Happy wife, Happy life. Right?
DO NOT DO THIS. It is an attraction kill. She is shit testing you to see your masculine frame. Are you a strong fatherly, provider type of man on your purpose? Or are you a puppy dog desperate for sex with nothing going on that is important in your life?
Ask yourself. Why is James Bond so sexy to women? He's a daredevil. A vagabond in a suit. Women get wet because of his un-attainability. He is simply unavailable. He can't be taken for granted.
Don't get it twisted guys. I am not talking about neglect. But when she begs you to come over. Make sure you are doing something. Organize a time to see her when you are free and stick to that. Tell her, "Baby, Superman is on his purpose. See you tomorrow." "I wish I could be there but I can't." or "I'm doing important work but thinking of you."
Turns out she was on her period. Emotional. She sent me a text message though saying, "I like this new side of you. Like you're always busy-never talking on the phone-its different."
After my days achievements were done. I went to see her. She had longed to see me and was intimately rewarded.