Confessions of a Ladies Man: Asking a Lady Out on A Date

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I have given you 2 REAL LIFE examples this week on how to ask girls out on dates. Here is my advice.

Be Confident, Playful, and Excited!

You can see in the screen shots that I am as playful and flirtacious as I am on a date with a lady. Women are based on emotions. This means good, playful vibes as a first impression is a HUGE bonus. Look At one opening line from Bumble and the other from Tinder.

Confessions of a Ladies Man: Asking a Lady Out on A Date

Give playful openers based on profile information. In this case I used her cat named Pancakes as an opening for Bumble Girl.

Confessions of a Ladies Man: Asking a Lady Out on A Date

Here I picked up that she is good at the game ping pong and used it as an opening for playful banter...

Be Confident. Blunt. Direct. Ask her Out!

Ask her out after no more than a few messages. A lot of girls are time wasters! Be a confident person. Get tot he point!

Confessions of a Ladies Man: Asking a Lady Out on A Date

With Bumble GIrl I asked her out in the first message playfully. Here I followed up and was blunt. Also, I gave a shit test about paying for the meal to see how serious she was. A confident alpha is clear and has standards!

Confessions of a Ladies Man: Asking a Lady Out on A Date

Here you can see I flat out tell her "I am direct..." Only a confident alpha tells a girl he means what he says. Girls like direct honesty and confidence.

The Results. What Happened?

One date happened the other I got stood up. Yes, 'Ladies Men' are not Gods. Even sexy guys get stood up. Date with Bumble Girl was on a Tuesday. She was a single mom living about 45 minutes away. She stood me up. Ghosted me on Bumble before the date.

Date with Tinder Girl was Wednesday (A Single, childless, lawyer) The next day. Ironically she was hotter and lived only 1 mile away. The date was great. She came back to my place and we had sex. She spent the night and we had coffee the next morning. She left my place yesterday (today is Friday).

Be fun. Be confident. Be Direct. Ask girls out!

Confessions of a Ladies Man: Asking a Lady Out on A Date
Confessions of a Ladies Man: Asking a Lady Out on A Date
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