Do I stand a chance?

[Anonymous]

So there’s this really pretty girl that I goes to my college. I asked her to hang out through text. She responded “That would be great!” I then followed up asking her where she wanted to go and then she responded with “o crap I didn’t realize how busy my schedule is but I’ll let you know when I’m more free.” Is there still a chance here? I feel like there’s optimism that she did indeed did say yes on her first response but was that all planned just to be nice to set her up for the next message after that? Is it actually that she’s busy? What should I do next? Do I give it a month or so and if no response then do I follow up again? Do I even stand a chance? Please answer in the polls and comment your thoughts I REALLY like this girl.

Yes, there’s still hope. She probably really is busy

No. She lied to you bro

[roxbby]

I completely agree with what @ajeazyk said in his answer. What you should do is rather ask again, and be more definite on where you want to go. I'm not very aware about relationships, but I've seen lots of TikTok's, memes, girls discussing, etc. about how they like when they already have the plan in mind and don't have to ask them where they want to go when they're initiating the date. I would wait maybe two weeks after you had first sent your first message so you don't come off as too clingy. It's not too long, and if she's actually busy, it's more likely that she may have a better idea of her own time, and she will more likely accept.

[ajeazyk]

I'm going to say your big mistake was asking her where she wanted to go. Most of the time if you are asking a girl to hang out you should already have an idea of where you would want to go with her or what you would want to do. It made no sense for you to ask her to hang out and initiate something like that AND THEN proceed to ask her where she wants to hang out. If you are asking you should know where and just say something like. "How about this?"