There’s this guy I kinda liked. He tried to get me to give him head and I said no. Then he kept being rude saying I should be easy. He kinda has a thing with my friend where he says he doesn’t like her and there isn’t anything. She swears they’re in love and he has no other options. I know he does like I’m not dumb. Trust no man lmao We were all chilling him, my friend (t) and his friend. He always asks me to talk, says my talking has gotten less and more boring. So I told my friend (t) to talk. He said she’s even more boring I want to hear you talk. She’s conveniently more attractive. She’s having sex with him, I’m not. But do I have a chance? I really like him but I feel like because I didn’t give myself up I’m less of an option. She’s my best friend. But I had a thing with him first but without sex so she didn’t consider it.
…….…… I have a soft spot for girls like you, so I’m not going to judge you.
I don’t think this guy likes you or your friend.
I think he just wants to fuck. If you’re cool with that, fine. But don’t expect him to ask you to be your girlfriend. Expect him to smugly smile and say “damn that’s crazy” with apathy in his voice when you tell him how you feel.
Im not going to tell you what to do, because it’s your journey. Live on your terms.
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I can guarantee you in the long run it won't be worth it, I believe you should forget about it because we can't control our emotions and when shit happens, it's going to backfire when shit is as messy and complicated as this, just saying
it doesn't sound like he really loves your friend and it didn't sound like he really loved you either... plus he tried to have you give him head when you weren't ready... it just doesn't like there's any real love there.
He's doing it with ur friend.. that's a red flag instantly
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A chance at what... a disaster? You already turned him down for his selfish desire for gratification... good job! Now you want to "rescue" or "save him" or "catch the big prize"? What are you thinking? He's just going around getting sex and doesn't give a crap about anyone... even himself or his potential offspring.
Why in the world is this guy of value over others? I know my answer, but what is yours? This guy is less than a turd, hardly worthy to be thrown into a field as fertilizer... yet is seen as solid platinum. Young girls inexperienced hormones... or is it possible that your own father left and you had a single mom? That would make sense in the alignment.
You just wait and see if he knocks her up how it goes. Want me to predict that one and how much support she will receive, emotional, financial? Zippo.
You'll learn in time, rethink this. You may need help... im serious...
Do yourself a favor and move on.
All he wants is sex and is just trying to coerce you to do it.
Someone will either like you for you sex or not.
If they are truly interested in you sex will not be an issue until you are ready.He will use you for sex just like your friend.. Why waste your time with this loser? I know its hard but have some standards
He just wants you for sex or a bj. I think you can do better
... why would you want to be with someone who only wants to be with you if you put out?
Hahaha, don't think so.
Why the f do you want a loser like that?
No, move on. You don't need this.
No. It’s over. Just stop trying
You might, but you should avoid him.
He's a player and just wants sex
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