We often talk about people struggling with anxiety, depression, trauma, grief, and other mental health problems, but we don’t always think about the people sitting across from them and listening to these stories every day 🧠
Imagine hearing about someone’s abuse, loss, family problems, suicidal thoughts, or years of trauma, then going home and trying to live a completely normal life afterward...🤔😐 Therapists are trained to create professional boundaries, but they’re still human. Surely some stories must stay with them longer than others.
I wonder how they actually cope with that emotional weight. Do they eventually become emotionally numb to protect themselves, or do they learn how to care deeply without taking everything home with them? And what happens when a therapist is going through their own difficult period while still having to be emotionally present for their clients?
There’s also something strangely human about the idea that someone can spend all day helping other people understand themselves while quietly having their own struggles that nobody sees. ❤️
I’m genuinely curious about people who work in mental health: does the profession ever become emotionally overwhelming, and what do you do to keep other people’s pain from becoming your own?
Imagine hearing about someone’s abuse, loss, family problems, suicidal thoughts, or years of trauma, then going home and trying to live a completely normal life afterward...🤔😐 Therapists are trained to create professional boundaries, but they’re still human. Surely some stories must stay with them longer than others.
I wonder how they actually cope with that emotional weight. Do they eventually become emotionally numb to protect themselves, or do they learn how to care deeply without taking everything home with them? And what happens when a therapist is going through their own difficult period while still having to be emotionally present for their clients?
There’s also something strangely human about the idea that someone can spend all day helping other people understand themselves while quietly having their own struggles that nobody sees. ❤️
I’m genuinely curious about people who work in mental health: does the profession ever become emotionally overwhelming, and what do you do to keep other people’s pain from becoming your own?
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This is a very heartfelt and insightful question bc not many people consider what does the provider is going through. They’re just like another individual and not a pedestal that most people put them on bc of their job title. It’s a combination of processing and managing your own emotions, self-care, and the practice of not crossing countertransference.
And professional boundaries to balance.
@bobalife you're correct, I sometimes sit and think about them too... It's really a difficult job.. I could never consider that.. I'm too weak for that 😏 I'll breakdown immediately
I’m sure your therapist would be grateful and happy you were thinking of them! And it’s okay, it’s definitely a tough job, but I think those who are in the field are kinda aware of the challenges they will faced or will learn to walk through each of the vulnerable stories with their clients step by step
I guess so
I think they need to be very stoic and stable as well as have ways to remove themselves from the engagement with the feelings. This is one of the reasons , I think women especially, get stressed out because they think "venting" or sharing their emotional event with others makes it easier to deal with when it doesn't. All it does is spread and reinvent the issue
One day i got a phonecall telling me that my father had collapsed at work. I got in my car and drove to the hospital where he was taken. I met with a male nurse who told me that I should sit. I knew it was going to be bad news.
Eventually I asked him how he does it? How does he give people the worst news they could get on a daily basis. He told me about all the times he gets to tell people the best news that they can get.
I imagine it is like that.
I think they are use to being that situation
I guess so
I hear you I just wrote out a two-page answer and I couldn't even send it for me I just want to feel love give love experience it with a smile on my face
Sending hugs 🫂🥰
Mostly, by not caring. Or rather by caring 100% in the moment, and then blocking it out completely. If something lingers, they debrief with other therapists. At least, that's what I did when I was on crisis lines.
I like helping people with their emotional problems, just like I like nursing wounded dogs back to health, or cooking for needy people. You have to become a person who enjoys it.
They need to rely on specific psychological frameworks, behavioral boundaries, and clinical training.
They don’t have feelings for the patient and they trained themselves to be tough. I don’t know how they deal with it
they have their own therapist...
Yo @LordOfThePines
They get paid