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I read somewhere that part of the reason women are having such a hard time finding decent men is because we as women don't demand that they treat us right. Like say after 2 weeks of dating that a guy wanted sex and the girl didn't. If he announced he was no longer interested, then she'd have sex with him to keep him interested instead of taking it as the red flag that it is: he just wants sex. Basically they were saying that we as women don't treat sex as a luxury anymore when it actually is in a relationship. Instead, we hand it out like candy which is why men no longer feel the need to value us for our personality or other offerings. I don't have the article though because I read it at the library.

Here's some quotes from a different webpage by someone named Evan Katz:

"My advice is not to tell men that they shouldn’t sleep with women; it’s to tell women that you must have men make a greater investment in you as individuals before having sex... You want to find out if a man is serious about you? Wait to have sex with him. If you don’t – because you’re a liberated woman who can have sex whenever you damn well please – don’t be too surprised if a decent percentage of those men never call again. Again, I’m not remotely judgmental of those who have sex without commitment; I will only point out as a dating coach that it tends to lead to sub-optimal results from men because they didn’t have to do anything special to get into bed with you."

So what do you think? Is the reason dating is so difficult these days because women don't make men value them as people?