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It's basically a snapshot of where all the planets were and all of the houses at exactly when and where you were born. Each planet has a personality trait. For example Mercury is the planet for communication, Saturn is the planet for conflict, the Moon is for attraction, the Sun is your primary horoscope sign, etc. The outer ring is all of the signs. Depending on which signs hold your planets describes your personality. Even the angles of how your planets aligning with each other says something about you. Good or bad.

Do I believe in this stuff? Fuck no. Do I find it interesting? Sure. Truth is I'm seeing someone who's REALLY into this stuff and it made a pretty fun weekend. We looked at the compatibility of our charts and read the positive and negative aspects of our relationship. It's a pretty cool way to have a date in quarantine.

Hopefully this gives you an idea for an interesting date with your significant other...

So, I have been with my girlfriend for a long time. About 5 1/2 years.

Early in the relationship (around the 3 month mark) she lied to me about her ex texting her. It happened while I think I was looking at her phone whike she wrote a note. I didn't see what it said. She lied and said it was her female roommate that texted her (Completely different names). I gave her about a dozen chances to tell the truth. Finally I told her I already knew and saw. She admitted she got a text from him, but it that she isn't doing anything, he just tries to text her sometimes, and since I had a friend/family member dying of Cancer at the time (R. I. P. Joe Basara), she didn't want me to worry and overthink.

There have been a few more small lies, omissions of truth, and more over the years, but I legitimately believe she loves me. We have been with each other through some of our more difficult times thus far, and she's a very emotionally feeling person. She loves animals, she can't handle people or animals being hurt without bursting into tears, etc.

But I still don't trust her completely. I haven't trusted her since that day when she proved she could lie right to my face. We have been long distance for about 3 years (Her family moved and we weren't equipped to move in together at the time), so I wouldn't even know if anything was going on.

She also lied about the state of her coworker's marriage. She claims she didn't know, but they were in a really bad place and about to divorce. She showed me her texts to make me feel better, and while he definitely talked about the marriage being in a bad spot, there didn't seem to be signs of anything more than him mentioning it and just being an acquaintance. Messages likely weren't deleted.

How can I trust her again? Should I?