When Jesus was on the cross he was thirsty after 3 days of dehydration and requested water
A man who did not respect him offered him vinegar mixed with wine attached to a sponge
And when Jesus discovered the drink was not regular water he refused to drink it
The drink is a symbol for love
The vinegar is a sign for toxic love
The softness of the sponge shows us how easily accessible toxic love is for those who are in the depths of despair
The fact the toxic love is mixed with the wine of cynicism and stubbornness shows us how unchangeable some toxic characters are
When Jesus chose death by thirst over toxic human care he was showing us that even when people are dying of loneliness people should choose isolation and desperation over the material foundation of a familiar and toxic relationship
Better to be alone than to be in bad company
At the very least, loneliness cannot corrupt or defile you
Which brings me to the compass image
If you want a good relationship, you have to be patient and reject the bad ones
If you want a good tenant you have to reject the bad ones
If you want a good job you have to avoid working the ones that will not build or sustain your career
And if you want high quality friends, you have to reject the bad one
If you want the good gift, you have to be patient and reject the bad ones that are offered to you first
Have the courage to believe in your dreams and to live as if your vision is reality
Sacrifice for the Hope in your mind and not for the pleasure in your immediate body
That is the key to long term happiness
And the antidote to bad relationships
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