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I remembered watching Steve Wilkos show. While this abuser did whatever he wanted to his poor girlfriend (even smell her underwears), he did nothing when Wilkos was right in his face yelling at him.

Generally speaking (with few exceptions), the very same abusers that claimed to lack self-control, can magically be well-behaved with their employer or someone of authority. All of the sudden, they don't have the same urge to slap or punch a manager that reprimands them one day or gives an order. They fear getting fired or charged with assault and going to jail but don't have that same fire when hitting that poor girlfriend or wife.

I was walking Bella and there’s some work being done to the corner bar. Normally I walk by last and politely ignore to I revert her from yelling at them.

Today I apologized as walking by but there was one guy painting and he started talking. It was a neutral conversation, I don’t even recall the detail precisely.

I do remember talking a lot- bc I do it’s just how I am- and loud bc I was across the street. It was also 6 am so I had a ton of energy bc I hadn’t done much yet so I was kinda hyper as I am in the A M.

I realized I was talking too loud too fast too much. So I was conscious of resigning it in but he kept talking and I’d forget.

He also wanted Bella to new his dog. And I had to walk by a few times bc Bella wanted to go. But she kept growling so we had to leave. I felt bad and offered to walk his dog with her if they get along in future.

Anyhow my question is during course of the conversation I said stuff like he has a really sedate personality- in a good way- ( bc Bella stopped barking) he seems gentle I mean In a good way, that he gives off peaceful vibes the conversation,

amd the second time I was there he asked me how I liked his lights, and I said it was a great idea. Lights at night look magical. He asked me what did I say they looked, I said magical..

anyhow he kept talking but I worry it seemed like I was hitting on him bc third time we passed by he was hiding inside. 😂 I don't know if he was hiding he might e just been done painting. Still I feel uncomfortable. I’m very outgoing with strangers. Once I know people I become reserved 💁‍♀️😛

How do I make things non awkward. I don’t want to ignore him when I pass by which is my usual go to. He’s a decently kind person and I don’t want to be rude. I definitely was not flirting and am NOT interested. I’m quite sure he has a girlfriend as well which is partly why I wasn’t concerned.