It is a common thing for a woman to get spanked ( at least once in a lifetime) by her husband?

[Anonymous]

Guys, did you ever spanked your girlfriend/ wife?
I received a spanking from my fiancee the other day. Well I had been having a bad day, nothing worked out for me and I was taking it out on him. Let me tell you I do this everytime something it's not right in my life. I know is wrong but he keeps asking me how I feel and giving me all sorts of solutions and then I get angry because he won't shut up. Anyway yesterday I was getting so angry which was making him get mad which in return was making me yelling at him. I pushed him and when I tried to walk away he spanked me ONCE really hard. I faced him once again and I tried to slap him. I never slapped him before. He caught my arm right before and pulled me towards the couch saying :,, That's it! You really need this! Next he was having me over his knee and actually spanking me. I tried to get loose but there was no way. I asked him to stop because that's ridiculous. After all I am his girlfriend, not his child. He started to hit harder and harder and he told me that it will stop when I will calm down and promise him I will discuss my problems with him or at least let him be there for me. Well by that point I was in pain already and I just wanted to be over so I said I will. I went to our bedroom alone and after a couple of hours he came by my side and he hugged me. The thing is I wasn't angry. I felt relief and calmness. Of course I think it's wrong that he beat me but why I'm not angry. Must be something wrong with me?

[MrOracle]

Despite all of the feminism taught in society today, many (yes, not all!) women, even if they don't realize it, crave to have a man who they respect and who is emotionally strong and stable - and they want to be submissive to him. Now, this can't be just any guy - she has to respect him in other ways as well. He has to prove that he's a good man who cares about her, etc., but once she has found him, she wants him to take charge.

And in this way, he has done so. He obviously had no intention of doing any permanent harm, but rather he wanted to send a clear message that he is in charge and that if you get irrational, he's going to keep you on the straight and narrow. And, for many women, that's a comforting feeling, because many women realize that they DO become irrational at times, and can get themselves into some serious trouble because of the way they act when they do, which is why they seek strong but caring and moral men to be with.

It sounds to me like that's what's happened here. You choose a good guy for good reasons, and when you got irrational, he kept you from getting too far out of hand, but purposely didn't cause you any permanent harm in the process. He didn't do it because he was irrational himself, he did it with measured control and for a specific purpose - and you know that, and respect that. And that's okay. I've dated women like that a number of times, and they know - they've told me - that they need this, and they are happy to have found a man who will do what is necessary without going too far - someone they can TRUST to do that.

[Asker]

always craved to have a man who will respect me, care for me but also put his foot down when I go crazy. He always knows how to temper me when I am going out of limits. Though, he never hit or spanked me before.. like I was a kid. I was shocked but anyway that worked. Since then I am better. I am calm without any efforts.. His weird method worked! Hopefully I will never experience something like that.. too painful.

[MrOracle]

It sounds like he understands you well, and gave you what you needed when you needed it. What could be better than that?

[allenwants2]

Well that was a dramatic event at first glance I thought it was going u know there and whack it made a u turn now did it help how did itmake you feel did he hug you aftrer

[Asker]

Well during it I was surprised he would really do that to me. After that I felt ashamed and I was trying to stop him. At the end I wasn't even angry.2 days have passed I am still very calm. Still hurts to sit though 😐

[JackSmy]

With almost every girlfriend, and even just some female "friends", going out, a little 'spanking' play is expected, maybe! With Girlfriends, and privately, at some point, she either asks for it, or I just tell her, and it is kind of a playful thing, that a lot of couples do!
Not hard, but just enough to get a little pink, and get her excited, and maybe ready for the 'loving' later?
Some have had a 'fetish' thing, with spanking, so it is much more involved, and more sensual, and erotic, for her, with more assertive spanks, and a redder bottom, but between spanks, the PAIN, something more sensual, and loving, and touching her intimately, to excite her.
NEVER, EVER spanking, in ANGER!! Only for her pleasure and joy, her way, and she is in control, ALWAYS!
I think it is too far, and abusive, what he did to you!

[Apple1996]

Im only into spanking if its sexual. Not for punishment. If you're uncomfortable then tell your man to stop it

[Hotwifebecky]

My husband has spanked me for years. I get belt usually

[girlzruleboyzdrool]

YeH, it happens. If I ever face slap my husband, Like you did.. or pester him to be an asshole.

[Meatunnel69]

Some girls might flood their panties when a man forces himself on them like this others will beat the mans ass.

[bamesjond0069]

Nah its normal. I do this to my girlfriend all the time.

[Asker]

Really? As a punishment without her consent?

[bamesjond0069]

Yes. As a punishment. And I told her when we first saw each other that i will physically punish her for acting up or else dont see me again... she keeps coming around so i suppose she consents.

[msc545]

No, it's abusive as hell. Think twice before marrying this guy.

[xive4bibek]

Yeah it is a common thing... I don't think it is bad unless you are doing against her will.

[Pistolpete90]

What the fuck? That is a weird reaction!

[Anonymous]

Yeah, and most women like it too.

[cootjuh]

I recieve the spankings

[JennieF]

I think so.

[Kelly6]

Very common

[Anonymous]

Never ever