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From the beginning; for a year he saw this girl that he worked with in a friends with benefits arrangement. He told her several times he wasn't interested in a relationship with her yet she continued to always come over to his house uninvited, cook for him, clean etc. so he ended it but she didn't believe him and became worse. After he tried ending it she befriended all his friends and his family without asking him and got her best friend- which is one of the guys his brother is close to, to move on with them (he lives with his brother) so she could have an excuse to always be over. She literally forced herself into his life.

Now he fully cutt her off last year and started talking to me. Taking me on dates etc. I who had just met him one night at a bar had no idea who she was or anything for the first 7 months of seeing each other casually. He started by befriending me. The whole time, this girl who I had never met was calling him 24/7 telling him that I was using him and I was seeing another guy who was in a relationship and so many awful things about me to him while he was still getting to know me. On the side she was spreading rumors about me to our mutual friends saying I stole her boyfriend and stalking me actively on all my social media writing things about me.

I found out about this 6 months ago after being told by several people various rumors they heard about me slitting around and him paying all my expenses (I'm still a virgin and pay everything myself). So I confronted him because she was also at that point saying they are in love and he was cheating.. Also not true.

This week she took to social media to talk shit about me. He confronted her and she said she would stop, only to resume a minute later now slamming him too. I told him to cutt her off because I am at my limit, block her number etc if he wanted to stay with me. And he did telling her to contact someone else if it was for work.

Now she is saying on social media I used witchcraft to steal him. LOL

So I have an ex friends with benefits . We were really close before we started hooking up, we hung out almost every weekend for a few months. He claimed I was getting too attached, but I had just ended a four year relationship with another guy previous to hooking up with this guy. Granted I wasn't in a great place to be seeing anyone and wasn't really myself, but he ended it. When I would see him, he would act like nothing had happened even though we ended things on bad terms. Right after he ended it, he started publicly dating this girl with the same first and middle name as me, as if him seeing another girl didn't piss me off enough. It made me feel insecure because he never wanted to be public with me and said he wasn't looking for a relationship but he jumped into one after ending things. When we went to college, he didn't text me but religiously checked my snapchat stories and liked my Instagram posts. He snap chatted me a few random times during the year but I didn't respond. Right before Christmas break he texted me asking to hang out and saying that he missed me. I didn't know if he was still together with his ex at the time but he confirmed that they weren't. He didn't even use her name, he just called her "my ex". As I was naturally curious, i took him up on his offer but also brought one of my best friends with me who was also close with him. I get in the car and within seconds he's talking about his sex stories from school! But then he went to say that I should go and visit him at college! I didn't hear anything from him after that because he had a short break but recently he sent me a snapchat of him and another girl! I know he is a jerk and I would never hook up with him again but his behavior is annoying and I don't know what his deal is! Is he interested in being friends with benefits again, does he want to be friends or is he trying to make me jealous? Thanks for reading! :)