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My boyfriend broke up with me four days ago. The day before my phone died and he thought I was ignoring him and had a panic attack. Thought I didn’t want him anymore, was sick of him or didn’t want him. I said that wasn’t the case I cared for him and kept reassuring him. The next day he was suppose to stay the night for the first time in 7 months. I still live with my parent and they just allowed it. I’ve been going down to his place (his parents place) every second weekend instead. We are long distance I feel like this was part of the reason and he wanted to move in after 5 months of dating and asked for three months I said I wasn’t ready maybe in a year. The day of the break up he said I made him happy, I was a great girlfriend, cared deeply for me and he seen a future with me. He wasn’t sure he was in love with me. We talked four days later and he said he thinks he is surprising his emotions I said I did the same in before the break up I was scared to say I love you. I offered to move down in September and make it work we went back and forth he said he didn’t wanna take the risk because we are unsure of where we are as people and didn’t think we could handle the extra stress of moving out, focusing on our relationship and extra responsibilities. He agreed with me I needed to live my life more before settling down and he had to deal with his demons. He said he misses me too and we started to carry on casually for a bit afterwards but agreed to give each other some space (2-3 days to think). Do we have a chance to get back together? I love him so much and don’t want to lose him and agreed to be his friend told him I wanted to be more and I’ll always love him and be there for him. He said he would rule out dating again, he cared deeply and he’ll always be there for me.

Do we have a chance? 🥺

Even if you did or didn’t care to interracially date, would your parents care if you did?

My mom, dad and grandma have dated some of every race. As have I. However, I see no interest in dating someone who’s constantly jokes about stereotypical things and makes racially insensitive comments on the daily. For example, my grandpa loves to flirt with women of all races yet he doesn’t feel the different races should officially mix in terms of dating/marriage. And he only comments negatively on women dating outside of their race yet praises the men getting laid by different races. I’ve had to call him out several times about his double standards and slick comments in order for him to respect my history in dating a rainbow of men. But at the same time, no one in my family has ever been able to stop me from dating who I want. And I just personally refuse to continue showing interest in someone who allows their family to dictate who they date. Of course, I still find many men attractive but i lost interest in dating outside my race a good while back. Its just too much drama with the cultural differences and clearly not who I see myself building a future with in the long run. But i do have moments where i consider making an exception to the rule, only to end up regret that decision. Like I’ve really gotta stick to my stance.
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