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I'm just wondering. Everywhere I read on the internet, people constantly say that a child should always love his/her mother no matter how much of an abusive piece of shit she is, which I think is the most bullshit thing I've ever heard. The mother was the one who MADE THE CHOICE on her own free will (at least in most cases, not all) to have a child. The mother is the one who made the choice to have relationships with what ever type of man that he should have known how he is and most of all, the mother is the ADULT (or much older one) who should be a compassionate role model to her kids that protects them at all cost, along with letting their children live long enough while she already has lived longer than them.

I bring this up since I knew a boy who suffered from constant physical and emotional abuse from his single mother (who's currently unemployed and leeches off of child support and welfare money) and no one does anything about it to help him. That speaks volume for how selfish, backwards and retarded our society has always been. Luckily for me, I have a mother who actually does her part and showed A LOT of patience and compassion with me like a real mature lady/mother should.

As much as I hate abusive fathers equally, at least they don't get free passes from society to be abusive pieces of shit.

Emotional security means that you never have to worry about him cheating or abusing you emotionally or physically, a guy that goes out of his way to try to keep you happy. However with this option comes the possibilty of not having the standard of living you might have dreamed of. I mean, you might want to go travelling but you can't. You might want a house together but he can only afford to rent a small apartment that is barely adequate if you want children. He does the little things for as much as he can afford. Romantic and creative but again, you have to let go part or most of your dream goals for yourself to be with him.

Financial security means that the guy can fulfill everything you need and almost everything you want within reason. On the other hand, the guy is not completely committed to you emotionally and he can be abusive sometimes. He makes sure that you always have more than enough money to spend but he is possessive and quite selfish and egocentric. He is still a pretty decent guy (as in he does not do crime and he is kind to his friends and relatives).

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