Step 1:Learn to think like a man
Men don't beat around the bush, they don't use emotional reasoning like "everyone is different" or "that's not nice".
Who the fuck cares?
The answer is the girl does. She cares about nice, about each individual detail, about feelings, intuitive worrying and she's the one playing it safe with her every word and action.
No woman needs a pussified shemale who thinks like she does. Women need men. Men who can make up their mind, use logic, state truths and not feel the need to bullshit everyone with perpetual,cowardly politeness. Men who aren't afraid of stating the truth.
Men raised by single mothers and dominant mothers (who aggressively wore the pants in the family) are most pussified in this regard. They are the ones who have been reprimanded over "hurt feelings" so many times, their brain grew a vagina. No one ever toughened them up and now they don't understand why women see them as one of their girlfriends.
The truth is that you are the girlfriend.
Feminist lies in your way: You can't offend people. Don't be a caveman. *indignation without reasoning*-> How DARE you say that?! (or the especially retarded ->) That's a generalisation!
Step 2: Become sexist
Feminists are morons. Everything feminism presented and claims to have brought into this world is BULLSHIT. It did not help anyone. Ever.
Women always had freedoms they have now, and when they didn't, same applied to men. If women were abused and suffering, you'll definitely find the male version in the same society. Women are weaker so yes, more vulnerable. But if there are men who want to abuse women, there are men who want to protect them and die for them.
Otherwise the freedom men and women had matched the responsability they carried. (Men carried more burden, so they got more freedoms: i.e. Right to vote? -> get drafted first, Right to control the money? -> earn all of it, Rule society? -> invent everything in it)
In order to make people believe men are opressors and villains preventing women from "rulling the world as equals", feminism claimed women were held back by men who "used them", disregarding the fact that men worked for women because of female inferior survival capacities. Women weren't opressed, but protected and they needed and demanded it. They still do.
Only today they also lie to themselves about it.
Look around you and realise that we are SO different that holding us to the same standards and spewing bullshit lines like "we are more alike than different" is what is creating the war between genders. Women can not meet your personal standards of behavior, and they won't want you if you meet theirs.
Since you have no frame of refference as to how to look at women I suggest you begin with the adult-child relationship. Seek to distinguish women from children first, before you compare them to men. Soon you'll realise female version of "adult" is so childlike there is NO WAY you can take them seriously as your equals. And that's good. You're onto something.
Feminist lies in your way: Women are equal to men.
No, no they are absolutely not.
Step 3: Learn to influence
Influencing people means to be demanding. To say what you want, need, what you think and to direct people where you want them to go.
It means to be active, to SPEAK UP! Instead of sitting back and waiting for others to direct you. Shape, or be shaped. There is NO middle ground. NO "just hanging out".
It means to be able to tell people what TO DO and what NOT TO DO and not be afraid of stating why. It means to learn to put emotion, precision and clarity into your expression.
To provide both negative and positive reinforcement. To state what is wrong and what is good.
Example: "Don't fucking cut your hair, you'll look like a dyke! I don't want to be feeling like I'm fucking a young boy. I love your hair long. I love the smell, the feel of it. How it spills over your shoulders. I want to be able to pull on it when I fuck you from behind."
"Don't talk back to me this conversation is over."
WRONG way to do it: "I don't know, I don't like short hair." or even worse "I don't know, guys don't like short hair on women." or the too late "Oh, you cut your har...", "I love you any way you are honey."
Women are very insecure, defferring and easily influenced (this includes even the most aggressive cunt you ever met). They respond positively and submissively to blunt honesty and male agression and direction. This will allow you to bring order and to CONTROL your relationships.
Feminist lies in your way: You need to be a nice guy. You're just being meean. You're a dictator/sociopath/arrogant/evil...
Now ask yourself: What is more important? That which is true, reasonable and beneficial to all, or that which is nice? Is it more important not to insult people, or to connect to them and build good relationships?
Step 4: CONTROL the relationship
Many guys have some vague notion of women wanting them to be "dominant" and "confident" and that's true, but what this FUNCTIONALLY boils down to is control.
Controling/Leading the relationship means to always have the last say. You have to be willing to end the relationship and tell her to fuck off if she refuses to obey you and to behave how you want her to behave. But you also have to have the skill to get her to obey you first. We don't want you ruining every relationship before it even starts. (please reffer back to step 3)
Any freedoms the woman has, have to both granted and restricted by you. If tell her to do what she wants, she can do what she wants, but if you limit something she does, she has to do it they way you ask her to do it.
This also means you'll be responsible for everything that goes wrong in the relationship. It means that the freedoms you give her, instructions and restrictions you place on her are all on you. You're in charge. If she's hurting and suffering, that's on you. If she's a cunt, that's on you, if she is loving and you're both satisfied, nice job. (Yes, listening to the woman is a part of it. You have the last say, you make the decision, but you also listen in order to make a decision that is the best one.)
This causes women to feel safe, to respect you, to fall in love and to become sexually attracted to you.
Feminist lies in your way: Women are not drones! You're a caveman who wants a Stepford wife. Women have their own personalities!
Think about any other relationship that requires leadership: parent-child, boss-employee, teacher-student, referee-boxer...Do they deny kindness and human personality? Are they automatically opressive?
Learn all this and you'll have the option to either drown in pussy, or spend your life with that one girl you love, with added benefit of actually being happy together.
Also helps with bros n' jobs n' stuff.
FUN FACT: Majority of girls will passively whine spewing feminist nonsense, but when faced with the truth, they'll cave and shy away from arguing. Most women won't even object because they know it's their instict. Yet this will work on all women regardless of what they claim.
The real agressive feminists, those perpetuating the myths, putting pressure on reasonable men and allowing feminism to thrive are male! Male legislators, male keboard warriors, whiny MRAs, bitter MGTOWs and heartbleeding poet nice guys.
Women know they are full of shit, so they bitch halfheartedly using buzzwords and platitudes before they go off to fuck "the jerk". But men don't know women are full of shit.