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Search Results: no spark at a date
Did our first date went fine?
This will get a bit long but I hope you could read it and give some advice. I'll get detailed as much as possible. I have dated this girl I like and I should admit, there is a point where my tongue tied when she asked a...
Anonymous
(30-35) Why I'm Less Attracted To Women Nowadays
For starters, I was completely shocked of: The cookie-cutter mentality of most of them They ALL love shoes They ALL love tall guys They ALL are full of themselves Sure, there are probably exceptions, but I'm not seeing...
Anonymous
(30-35) Do you think looks are very important in a relationship?
I know that when you meet a person for the very first time, the first you see is the physical aspect of the person that is what draws immediately. what is most important is personality, respect, attitude, love and...
Anonymous
(45 Plus) Is It Actually Racist To Have Racial Preferences In Dating?
Anything spoken today regarding race inevitably sparks controversy, it being a very sensitive topic, one cannot but help notice the trend of racial selectiveness or rather in this case exclusion of certain ethnicities...
Chief16
Editor Age: 33 Why I Gave Up Online Dating
We live in an age of security and safety that has somehow made our world more paranoid and schizophrenic than ever before. The access of instant information at our fingertips has also somehow increased our uncertainty...
Chief16
Editor Age: 33 Do guys settle in a relationship?
Like do you ever date someone, and continue dating them because yeah they check off al the boxes, you like them but there's no spark but you just stay in the relationship because its "comfortable"?
deedee87
Xper 6 Age: 35 An old flame reignited, but seems the embers are going out. Help?
Back in April I reencountered an old flame from 15 years ago. We flirted and hit it off again and soon were meeting up for dinner again. 15 years ago we were fairly serious but it ended badly when he broke it off for...
Vahvi82
Xper 4 Age: 43 My boyfriend got sentenced today?
So my boyfriend (idk what else to call him) was sentenced today to 3 months in county jail for domestic violence. The incident happened when I was almost 2 months pregnant I am now a week shy from 5 months. After the...
Anonymous
(30-35) Dating advice about men?
I am 23 and I have been talking on and off to this man the same age for about a year now. He always seemed interested but I never really had the time to go out with him. Last week we went on a date, he came to my town and...
Anonymous
(30-35) How would I know if he will come back again to see me or just ghost on me?
Met this guy recently online. Talked for a week then he came from New York to visit me I live in Michigan. He stayed here for three dates and all three days he spent with me. I felt it was more of a friendly date than...
Anonymous
(36-45) Hope - Good or Bad?
People say ‘If’ is the biggest word in the dictionary. Recently I have found a new one ‘Hope’ which to me is even bigger. Recently I have found dating to become difficult. In my mid-thirties it is already a bit of a...
Anonymous
(36-45) Can you fall in love with your friend of the (opposite gender for me)?
First i'm a girl and I went on a date with this guy and it went really well I felt chemistry and it's weird because we have lots in common. I felt like myself with him. I was laughing and genuinely having a good time. We...
Anonymous
(25-29) Question reversal! What should I do I don't feel a spark with her?
I have been on 4 dates with a great girl but I just don't feel much with her. I feel like I'm going over to go visit my freind not my date. We get along great and we are fairly touchy with each other. After the...
Anonymous
(30-35) Why Some Guys are Successful With Women and Always Seem to Get What They Want
If you know anything about dating then you know how hard it is to find someone you truly want, someone who has everything you want in a partner. Some guys can't seem to find such a person and settle for less, but others...
Z-Spark
Xper 5 Age: 32 My Experience Being Ghosted: Epilogue
(This is NOT an actual photo of the woman who is the subject of this myTake. I would not compromise her privacy by posting her picture without her permission. This is simply a photo that I found browsing and it looks...
u Re-spark interest?
Alright ladies, here's a question I've thought about for a while. Let me build you a scenario: Let say you meet a guy and he seems pretty decent, you don't normally see him but the impression you got was very flattering...
CelticHero
Xper 5 Age: 33 Changes I'd Love to Live to See
In the past, I’ve faced some of issues or annoyances you’d commonly see.. such as women not going after what they want, efforts to impress the opposite gender, and other terrible things that some or all of us have or will...
Lopezz1999
Editor Age: 26 Should I be alone my whole life?
I've always wanted a relationship and have a boyfriend but I just hit twenty a couple days and here I am no experience with guys or being in a relationship what so ever. I always thought by 19 I would have at least one...
Anonymous
(25-29) Do the majority of girls using dating apps expect instant chemistry/spark on a first date?
A massive problem I have found is that no one seems interested in a second date and in big cities such as London there might always be someone better one swipe away. I go on lots of first dates but struggle to get a...
Anonymous
(36-45) What am I doing wrong on first dates? Always getting the 'no spark' or 'no chemistry' message a day or two later?
I am 37, male and from London. Have been going on dates from dating apps such as Bumble and Tinder for the last 5-6 months usually with girls in the 30-40 age group so a similar age range to myself. From my perspective...
richdeniro
Xper 4 Age: 45 