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Some background on my friend. She is very caring, strong, and loves getting people together. Sarah is pretty, always full makeup, hair curled, and always wearing something flattering. I am one who dresses more for comfort than appearance. I don’t like wearing makeup unless we are going out with friends or to do something where we are going to be in public all day. My boyfriend earlier on used to bring up how I should go shopping with my friend so I could start dressing like her. I told him her clothes are very expensive and not something I really wanted to put my money towards even when it comes to sweats. So for Christmas last year he bought me a bunch of lululemon. He says I need to be presentable when walking the dogs around our neighborhood. My friends have recognized when they all want us to do something the only person that can get my boyfriend interested is if Sarah tells him. He constantly gets upset with me that we never do what he wants, but he isn’t recognizing we always do what Sarah wants. He is a lot nicer and social with Sarah than he is with me. When I ask him why that is he says he would be the same way to me if I treated him how Sarah treats him. He is always asking who Sarah is dating and what she is up to. This is all so odd to me because he accuses me of having things with his friends if I even talk to them for 30 seconds, Let alone if I were to ever bring them up in convo. Last weekend I was upset about something else and it made me feel not good enough. He immediately brought up Sarah and how he doesn’t want her just me. My issue with the Sarah conversation isn’t that I think they would be together it is that I’m jealous of the attention and how nice he is to her in comparison to me. Throughout the night he would come up and say the same thing, I don’t want Sarah. I finally said I know for a fact Sarah doesn’t want you so I would really appreciate you stop saying that. It also just validates you aren’t hearing why that topic annoys me. So?

Six months ago my fiancee broke up with me that left me really devastated because I just found he had an affair. I went to dating site thinking that I can forget him by using another man. There I met Kostas who immediately did flew to see me. When I first met him I know I didn't really like nor love him. He forced me to have sex but this man really likes me and even want to move with him fast in his country however deep inside I know I am not really sure. I want to know him first but he is heading too fast. I am not physically attracted to him. There are times, we found ourselves arguing, fighting and him pushing me. He gets so mad at times when he doesn't get what he wants. But the good side about Kos is he is really serious being with each other and he was there at times I needed some comfort from my ex and life problems. But after six months, my feelings slowly vanished. I fear no man will be serious about being with me if I let him go.

After 6 months, I met a man named "Mario". At first it was like love at first sight. He is handsome and he has told me to he find me beautiful. We have a good time together like even if we do notsex we are enjoying each others company. We travel together and we eat together. There is no any negativity. All I know is I am happy when I am with him and I know he is happy with me too. The thing that makes me fall to this man is never force to do sex. When I rejected him, he never left and we still have that good conversation. By just hugging him. I feel comfortable and I feel safe. However, he said he hasn't move on yet from even for 2 years from his ex. But he said he really likes me so much. He feels happy around him.