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My husband is upset he can't get me pregnant but is he taking it too hard on himself?

We've been married for 3 years and haven't been able to conceive. I've already gotten myself checked. Several tests were done and they found no reason why I couldn't get pregnant. My ovarian reserve is above average, no obstruction on my fallopian tubes, no endometriosis. I got no high cholesterol, nor high blood sugar either. I'm healthy, fertile 26 year-old woman with a high chance of getting pregnant.

My husband set up an appointment for Tuesday Jan 3rd. He's worried by now. He recalled having a past girlfriend long ago, they had unprotected sex many times and she never got pregnant either. Since he wasn't ready to be a father at the time, he didn't care too much and just thought it was just luck. Though the girl later on met someone else and had 2 kids with the other man. Now it's different though. He's 33 years old and is hoping the news isn't that bad.

He has never gotten checked at a fertility center before. He hasn't been himself lately and taking it so hard on himself. He's tense, unease and feels upset that he can't get me pregnant. I'm trying to comfort him, telling me to relax, not think about it for now and we'll work it out regardless of what the news is on Jan 3rd. His own words were that he feels less of a man, as worthless. I understand he's upset now but is he taking it too hard on himself? He's not worthless, he's not less of a man. I love him and we'll work it out no matter what.

My husband is upset he can't get me pregnant but is he taking it too hard on himself?
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