He nd I were in smth like a band together for a competition. We just clicked asap music = love nd like it was a friend thing first he once told his friend that he got a soft corner for me same from me we eventually shared some deep trauma things since according to him we felt emotions same he nd I r in deep depressed we used to talk bout our therapists this that, on the competition day he was so nervous he holded my hand entirely even layed on my shoulder played w my hair I was just happy eventually it turned into love he cares bout me like a sister maybe I don't know I'm dumb lol he got a girlfriend it is wrong. Whenever I cry he just comes nd cheers up me nd we stopped texting after it then he popped up again once saying he was gonna die then I somehow managed to comfort him he said I'm the only one who cares bout him blah blah he loves his girlfriend so much even tho he hv said she is just meh I thought their relationship was bad or sm but it is not I don't wanna be a home wrecker we r very young by the way high school he used to text me every day double text if he didn't get a text back everyday good morning good night with the <333 everything was fine. Until last Thursday I don't know he just dipped he became so dry? Maybe it's just me thinking all the goodnight goodmorning stopped everything stopped i tried to make a conv by sending him a reel of a puppy but no left me on seen. At school he waves at me we talked today he didn't smile didn't look at my face it felt weird maybe it's me I don't know he was saying random shi nd then said bye nd left. I don't know what to do i want him as a friend idc bout boyfriend at this point I just want him it hurts I miss old things I'm worried bout him too he just made me feel alive he used to tell me to come to meet his birds nd we could go to beach the carnival etc carnivals in 4 days we haven't talked lol
Okay I didn’t read the whole thing- stopped half way
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HURRY AND TELL HIM
how you feel of course. A simple break up and early on in the game will not hurt her. Tell him you have some feelings and ask him if he could koi’s you so you can see if you do have feelings.
See what he says (if yes, that’s good). If he does kiss you that’s a possibility.
Then after also reflect and see if you also do have intimate feelings for him or not. Making sure you’re sure of your feelings and sharing that with an important person is helpful 10/10
Better to say it, than live with regret and wonderings about ‘what if’s.’ Also ask him if he has any feelings. He could just be respectful of the friendship and not see anything yet.
He might want to keep a friend who cares, but he can still have that in a relationship- a friend who cares, and you can too.
Better now, than when it’s too late and he and the other girl move on, or hurt each other more- which somehow always affects other relationships too.
Best to you sis! I’d move on that opportunity and really great friend who also happened to be a guy. Seems like a win-win to mee? 🤷♀️
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Be honest. Confess your feelings. Maybe he likes you too.
It's normal to feel a certain way about a friend especially if it's a friend of the opposite sex and if they're in a relationship with someone else it's a moral dilemma it can cause breakups of friendship from your female friend from him it really depends it is this is this boy worth pursuing and losing a female friend over or or not but if you do it you will develop a reputation and it will not be favorable.
Did you read this before you posted it? Jumping Jesus, your writing is atrocious. Just appreciate the good times you had and keep moving forward with your life. What's done is done. Don't dwell on the past and drag yourself through the mud emotionally. Maybe he will pull his head out of his ass eventually, but you can't wait around for somebody to come to their senses and appreciate you.
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If he wanted you he would of chosen you. Can't force someone to love you. Let it go and move on. Sorry.
It sucks. But don’t pursue it if he’s got a girlfriend.
A. You’re 15. No one finds their one true love at 15. Sorry. Not questioning your feelings just stats.
B. 15 years olds tend to bounce around relationships so don’t get so down and don’t screw up your friendship with this guy. Give him time to figure it out. We’re dense.
C. No sex til you’re 18. Now go to your room.You can be in love with him. Who knows? His current relationship may not last. In the mean time, be open to dating others.
Sounds like his girlfriend got to him and she got jealous of your friendship. Try befriended the girlfriend.
Give it a time. Let it unfold. Don't initiate anything yet. If they break up don't just jump right in.
You have to learn to ignore all that and move on. Sadly, it will happen again. It's a part of life.
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