Ex poly men seeking advice
So one of my ex girlfriend wants to have a poly relationship but it isn't who I am anymore. She currenly has a boyfriend she just had a kid with they have a girlfriend they both sleep with. She's always teasing me which I ask her not too I ended up cracking had sex with her after missing human touch I do have feels for her but know it won't ever work out. I've been single now for 10 months and not really over my ex girlfriend of 8 years she left me for another men lomg story.
I had my first poly relationship 15-18 months ago which ended really bad I was in love with both girls... like truly truly in love with them both. It ended really really bad I had my heart broken which bleed into my other relationship and lead to me pushing her into another men arms. Both of the girls I dated were crushed emotional from the experience from poly so I promise myself no matter how I feel am a one women guy agin.
My friend Mello has always been in love with me but do to life issues it just never happened. I told her I am not emotional available which is trule all i current want is a sex&cuddies i have zero interest in anything serious now. I can't promise I wouldn't leave any new relationship to be with any of my ex gfs so I know it isn't fair for me to date someone else till I can give them my all and I have a lot of truest issues now.
She doesn't wanna stop sleeping with me since she dont get enough at home. she's mad she's not my first choice to date if she was single feels like a slut because of it and keeps asking me not to replace her with anyone else for sex. I told her one day I may want a real relationship agin so we would have to stop sleeping together unless she wants to dump her boyfriend which she says she's staying with him. I given her a lot of advice to fix her current relationship but she feels bad talking to her current boyfriend about dating issues since he will then blame himself and start feeling like shit for neglecting her.
So one of my ex girlfriend wants to have a poly relationship but it isn't who I am anymore. She currenly has a boyfriend she just had a kid with they have a girlfriend they both sleep with. She's always teasing me which I ask her not too I ended up cracking had sex with her after missing human touch I do have feels for her but know it won't ever work out. I've been single now for 10 months and not really over my ex girlfriend of 8 years she left me for another men lomg story.
I had my first poly relationship 15-18 months ago which ended really bad I was in love with both girls... like truly truly in love with them both. It ended really really bad I had my heart broken which bleed into my other relationship and lead to me pushing her into another men arms. Both of the girls I dated were crushed emotional from the experience from poly so I promise myself no matter how I feel am a one women guy agin.
My friend Mello has always been in love with me but do to life issues it just never happened. I told her I am not emotional available which is trule all i current want is a sex&cuddies i have zero interest in anything serious now. I can't promise I wouldn't leave any new relationship to be with any of my ex gfs so I know it isn't fair for me to date someone else till I can give them my all and I have a lot of truest issues now.
She doesn't wanna stop sleeping with me since she dont get enough at home. she's mad she's not my first choice to date if she was single feels like a slut because of it and keeps asking me not to replace her with anyone else for sex. I told her one day I may want a real relationship agin so we would have to stop sleeping together unless she wants to dump her boyfriend which she says she's staying with him. I given her a lot of advice to fix her current relationship but she feels bad talking to her current boyfriend about dating issues since he will then blame himself and start feeling like shit for neglecting her.
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Whoa, rollercoaster alert! Love and relationships can take us on quite the ride, huh? 🎢 First off, it's essential to prioritize your well-being and what you truly want out of relationships. It sounds like you're yearning for genuine connection but are caught in a tricky situation with your friend who's already tangled up in her own complex love web. Let me drop a truth bomb: diving into a relationship, poly or otherwise, when you're not emotionally available is like trying to fill a cup with a hole in it. It just doesn't work. 😕
Your honesty about your feelings and where you stand is crucial, but remember, it's equally important to set boundaries, especially with someone who's pushing for a relationship you're not ready for. It's time to have a heart-to-heart with yourself and figure out what you truly need at this moment. And hey, it's okay to seek comfort and connection, but not at the expense of your healing and growth. 🌱
Sounds like a tangled web, huh? Been there, seen that! Feel free to hit me up if you want to navigate through this maze together. Let's untangle some knots! 💬
I just want sex that's it makes it easier with my friend since I can't have sex with out a connection
Am somewhat better mentally but got court issues I got fixed before I can truly heal