Search Results: confidence or insecurity

What Are The Attributes Of A Good Character?

I've often wondered to myself about what exactly attributes of good character are, as well as, how people express them. I didn't really pay attention to people as a teenager, but about a year ago that changed. I had a...

dude64bro

Xper 5 Age: 31

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Am I ever going find my soulmate, or am I not good enough based on my skin colour and looks alone? And why is my personality ignored?

I hate being judged based on my skin colour and looks. You clearly don't know me, but I'm average height, weight, and mature for my age in genral. But I feel as is I will be alone forever clearly cause females...

Anonymous

(25-29)

How to move on and forget her and what she did?

I recently got dumped by my girlfriend, almost fiance. She gave reasons about how I hurt her over the last 3 years, very little reason in fact... she would not have given me the closure I was looking for should I not...

Idontfknknow

Xper 4 Age: 44

Guys - would you rather?

Date a girl who’s gorgeous but has some insecurities or a girl who’s average but has major confidence?

Kamiink09

Xper 5 Age: 35

Is insecurity a turn off?

I have very low self confidence, i'm never satisfied with my body and i have hella flaws but i don't complain about my looks to anyone... Not one of those girls that can't take a compliment or calls herself ugly...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girl's Behavior

Is it wrong for me to believe that a majority (not all) females are connoving and stuck up?

Due to my experiences of rejection and the way i was treated in the past. I dont know i just feel tramautized, bitter and depressed with the cold and heartless rejections i had in the past. I almost came to the point of...

Bipolarjew02015

Xper 6 Age: 34

Why is he trying to get my attention online? yet no confidence to initiate contact?

Dealing with a guy that admits he is "not good" at texting or phone. He has strong feelings for me considering the long distance situation, but he is a crap communicator. It seems like he would rather check for me...

KandiKoolaid

Xper 6 Age: 41

Advice for a shy person in university?

Hi there, thanks for reading my question. I'm an active and friendly guy in my second year of university, studying molecular biology. I'm pleased with the direction my life is going, but more and more I get the feeling...

Nemesis104

Xper 5 Age: 29

How Do I Look?

Nose insecurity/advice?

So I'm just wondering, I have a nose that's hawked, kind of like Marlon Brando's by the side.. and I'm wondering, do you think beautiful girls inside and out would care to date me? Or should I get a surgery to fix it?...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

What do you think of those who use self-irony to fake confidence?

I make a lot of jokes about myself, to basically announce what my insecurities are, without letting others know that I'm actually telling that.

Anonymous

(30-35)

How to give of myself unconditionally?

I know that when i meet new people either just as friends or in a dating sceneario I (intentionally) expect people to always give of themself and "prove" their interest in me before i have the confidence to give back/show...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How to work with insecurities?

I am very insecure and I tend to compare myself a lot to different girls and I put myself down extremely. I have confidence so no one can tell me that I am unattractive and suddenly feel down. No. I was on a good note...

FlutteringFeelings

Yoda Age: 27

VERY confident men?

This guy who has been pursuing me is very confident and bold, he is successful and seems to be pushy in going after what he wants. like really persistent... But he easily gets frustrated or "insecure" when he doesn't...

Anonymous

(25-29)

How Do I Look?

You Worry Too Much About Your Looks

The conversation I had headed home on a bus way back in my high school days has always stuck with me about how much it is we tend to obsess over our looks and how we think other people see us--two things which are rarely...

Anonymous

(36-45)

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Guys: If you're shy, insecure, unable to approach - it's NOT the end of the world!

Although it's more difficult for a shy, insecure person to approach a desirable party, they need not worry as much. Why? Well...it's scientifically proven, and we all know this though our everyday lives, that stress and...

LittleSally

Editor Age: 37

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If you're insecure about yourself and in a relationship, who does the responsibility lie with to fix those feelings?

Be it over personal appearance, or feeling insecure about their partners phone habits or whereabouts, what's the best solution to fixing insecurity? Logically you can’t make a person feel secure. You can’t fix their...

Wonderer89

Master Age: 36

Be it over personal appearance, or feeling insecure about their partners phone habits or whereabouts, what's the best solution to fixing insecurity? Logically you can’t make a

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Improving Attractiveness To The Opposite Sex

Judging by the "How do I look?" section of this website, the popularity of image-based websites such as Instagram and Snapchat, and the direction of Hollywood and advertisement campaigns these days, appearance is not only...

Idonthaveausername

Influencer Age: 31

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