Search Results: how much do you ask about their ex

I met him 2 years ago. I was 21. He was 31. At first we were just chatting and talking on the phone. He was funny, cute, and charming. He was asking me out for like 2 months until finally I said yes. We went to many cute dates, he was taking me on his business trips and buying me romantic gifts.
One night we ended up kissing and having sex at my place. It was so good. After that we went to dinner and I said "You are an amazing guy, I'm surprised you're not married by now" and he went silent for a moment and then said "Actually, I am married". I couldn't believe it. But I stayed calm. I just asked him why didn't you tell me before, why do you ask others out? And he told me it was a mistake he married her. She doesn't love him. She is very much involved in her business which is in another country. So they don't spend much time together. They've been married for 3 years but they don't have kids. They hardly ever have sex because she doesn't want to. I felt a kind of sorry for him and I was thinking he deserved better. But let's face the truth: HE WAS A LIAR AND HE WAS DATING ME FOR MONTHS AND HAD SEX WITH ME BEFORE HE TOLD ME HE WAS MARRIED AND HE PROBABLY WOULD HAVE NEVER TOLD ME HADN'T I ASKED HIM! And he was cheating on his wife!

I was still chatting to him sometimes but I decided it's better not to see him, but after some time we met again. I tried to date others but I was in love with him. Until finally 1 year ago I met a guy who kicked him out of my mind and heart - my current boyfriend.

And my ex's wife found my shampoo at their apartment. He texted me telling me I was a bitch for leaving it there but the truth is he kicked my stuff out after a fight and didn't realize it was not hers. He is still texting me every few days even though it's been more than a year asking me to meet and saying I am the best girl and he misses me. Should I tell his wife?

So this is all the things this person has done by monthly timeline:
may:
*meets new girl*
*tells ex how much he wants her*
*gets with new girl*
*cuts ex off*
June (3 weeks later to be precise):
*new girl goes on a 6 week vacation*
*calls ex, says he loves her, and that this girl is a mistake*
*next day, says he needs some time, cuts ex off*
*one week later, asks ex for nudes*
*posts pics of girlfriend while doing this saying she’s the best thing that ever happened to him*
July:
*repeat all events from june*
august:
*tells ex he loves her, but he’s also “happy and bored in his relationship*
*goes w mutual friends to visit ex, kisses her*
*moved in with girlfriend*
*keeps asking ex when she can meet him at the apartment he still leases*
september: *
*meets up w ex again, kisses her, says he loves her but he doesn’t want to screw up this new relationship*
october:
*reaches out to ex again*
*asks how she is, talks about life, etc*
*asks to be sent nudes while girlfriend is not home*
*posts more pics of girlfriend*